Valentine's Day gifts will expose many cheating mates

Of the $14 billion spent on Valentine's gifts this year,
a significant amount will be spent by cheaters on gifts
for their secret lovers.  Many cheating Valentines will
be exposed by the gifts they give or receive.
Photo:  istockphoto.com/Juan Monino

Many cheating Valentines will be exposed by the Valentine’s Day gifts they give or receive this year.

The National Retail Federation predicts that Americans will spend over $14 billion on Valentine's gifts this year.

A significant amount of that money will be spent by cheaters buying Valentine’s Day gifts for the person with whom they’re having an affair.

Many of these cheating Valentines will be exposed by the very gifts they give, or the gifts they receive. See The Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.

Factors That Lead to the Exposure of a Cheating Mate

Four things associated with a cheater’s obligatory purchase and delivery of these Valentine’s Day gifts will contribute to the discovery of numerous extramarital affairs.

• A cheating husband or cheating boyfriend must buy his mistress a Valentine’s Day gift.

• The purchase of that gift will leave a paper trail.

• A cheating man has a 3-day period ( Feb 13 – 15) in which he must personally deliver his gift.

• A cheating wife or girlfriend must arrange her schedule so she can personally receive her lover’s gift.

These four factors will lead to the exposure of many cheating Valentines.

3 Ways Valentine’s Day Cheaters Can Be Exposed

• The Incriminating Paper Trail - Regardless of how the cheater pays for his lover’s Valentine’s Day gift -- check, charge, or cash from an ATM machine – it will leave a paper trail.

• Disappearing or Suspicious Gifts – A cheating husband or boyfriend will be exposed if his wife or girlfriend discovers a hidden Valentine’s gift which she doesn’t personally receive on Valentine’s Day. Obviously the gift was given to someone else.

A cheating wife or girlfriend can be exposed by a gift of jewelry from her lover which shows up shortly after Valentine’s Day -- especially if the jewelry is engraved with sentiments of love.

• The Delivery of the Valentine’s Gift - "The personal delivery of these Valentine gifts on or around Valentine’s Day creates a prime opportunity for cheating Valentines to be exposed. February 13th,14th, and 15th are the best days to catch a cheating Valentine. See Catch Your Cheating Spouse on Mistress Day, February 13th

More Help in Catching  Cheating Valentines

Spouses and significant others who suspect infidelity and want to catch a cheating Valentine should bear in mind that knowing what to look for is the key.

Request a free copy of the special infidelity report Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell, by e-mailing InfidelityInfo@gmail.com  with "21 ways-Xm" in the subject line.

You might also want to invest in a copy of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, which contains practically every known signs of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook..  Despite the title of the book, most of the signs it contains apply to both cheating women and cheating men. See The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010.

The chapter on Gifts contains 19 telltale signs. The chapter on Physical Evidence contains 32 telltale signs. The chapter on Absences contains 39 telltale signs. The chapter on Financial Affairs contains 52 telltale signs. The chapter on Accidental Slip-Ups or Disclosures contains 57 telltale signs. Each of the 21 categories of infidelity signs contains from 19 to 92 specific telltale signs. Other categories listed in the box to your right.

More Articles on Cheating Valentines Throughout the Valentine Season

I’ll be posting special Valentine’s Day infidelity articles throughout the Valentine’s Day season - February 13th,14th, and 15th. Bookmark this page and come back to read the new cheating Valentine information that will be posted over the next 3 days .

NOTE:   Love and Marriage Examiner Rita Watson has an interesting piece on Mistress Day which includes 2 books you might want to read. Mistress Day: why men cheat; and 'happily married' secrets, Dr. Scott Haltzman

I must add, however, that although Dr. Neuman quotes me at the beginning of his book, I disagree with some of the information his book contains. Check out my comments in Rita’s comment section to find out why.
 

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Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com  and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview Ruth Houston call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

 For more information on Valentine’s Day infidelity, or on catching a Valentine, see

 Catch Your Cheating Spouse on Mistress Day, February 13th

5 Common Excuses Cheating Men Use to See Their Mistresses

What You Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why

The Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign

13 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

Don’t Be Misled By the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

Is He Cheating? – Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell (free tip sheet)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (softcover book)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

What NOT to Do If He’s Cheating on You

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate