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Valentine’s Day flowers will lead to the discovery of many cheating Valentines

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Valentine’s Day flowers are the third most popular Valentine’s Day gift. Since Valentine’s Day is a male-dominated holiday, most Valentine’s Day flowers are purchased by men and red roses top the list according to a Feb. 14 report from NWI Times. On Feb. 14 and Millionaire Corner are reporting that this year an estimated $1.9 billion will be spent on flowers for Valentine’s Day.

A significant number of Valentine’s Day flowers will be purchased by cheating men for their mistresses. And many of those Valentine’s Day bouquets will lead to the discovery of countless cheating Valentines.

There are a number of ways these Valentine’s Day cheaters, male and female, will be accidentally discovered by their unsuspecting mates because of the Valentine’s Day flowers they have given or received.

How Valentine’s Day Flowers Can Expose a Cheating Mate

Below are the three most common ways cheating Valentines of both sexes will be exposed by the flowers they give or receive for Valentine’s Day. See How Valentine’s Day Flowers Accidentally Exposed 3 Cheating Mates

Love Note Mix-Ups

One of the most common ways cheating men get caught on Valentine’s Day is a mix-up in the love notes that accompany the flowers they send. This happens quite frequently because the flowers for the spouse / significant other and the flowers for the mistress/ affair partner are usually purchased at the time and same place and occasionally the florist may get the love notes or the delivery addresses confused.

Florist Receipts and Credit Card Bills

Mix-ups with love notes aren’t the only way cheating husbands and cheating boyfriends have been exposed on Valentine’s Day. Florist receipts or credit card bills can also give the cheating Valentine away. See How Valentine’s Day Flowers Accidentally Exposed 3 Cheating Mates

Sometimes an unsuspecting wife or girlfriend may find incriminating information a florist receipt or credit card bill indicating that more than one bouquet of flowers were sent. In addition to the name of the cheating man’s mistress, an incriminating florist receipt may also contain the mistress’s phone number and her home or work address.

Cheating Women Exposed

Women who are cheating on their mates can be exposed by Valentine’s Day flowers sent by their secret lovers if their husbands or boyfriends happen to get a look at an incriminating love note accompanying the flowers and figure out what’s going on.

How 3 Cheaters Got Caught

As an infidelity expert who has been researching infidelity and interviewing cheaters and infidelity victims of both sexes for the past 20 years, I’ve come across many “real life” stories of individuals whose infidelity was discovered by their mates because of flowers bought for Valentine’s Day.

If you’d like to read brief accounts of 3 of these cases, see the article below.
How Valentine’s Day Flowers Accidentally Exposed 3 Cheating Mates

Never Confront a Cheater without Proof

If you should find yourself in one of the situations mentioned above, it’s important not to confront your cheating spouse or significant other unless you have additional proof that he or she is having an affair.

You need to build a solid case before confronting the cheater so you will not be thrown off base by the lies the cheater will inevitably tell. See How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair and 9 Reasons a Cheater Will Lie About His Affair

If you’re trying to build an airtight case against the cheater, a good infidelity book can help. See The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2014

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs covers practically every known sign of infidelity -- including the subtle signs most people usually overlook. Despite the title most of signs in the book apply to both cheating woman and cheating men. The e-book version of Is He Cheating on You? comes with a bonus section containing questionnaires, special infidelity reports and affair recovery information for both the cheater and the betrayed mate. It can be ordered from

More Tips on Catching a Cheating Valentine

This article is part of the Valentine’s Day infidelity article blitz associated with my 11th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.

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Ruth Houston is a New York-based journalist and infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on celebrity infidelity, high profile infidelity court cases, and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of, the author of the popular infidelity reference book, Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and writes an infidelity advice column and a celebrity infidelity column for Ruth also conducts infidelity seminars and does individual infidelity consultations, as well as cruise ship lectures on celebrity scandals and other lifestyle topics. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail

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