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Valentine Challenge: Day Three

I see you're back again!  I hope that day two of the challenge was fun for you and that you tried to think outside the box.  Did your partner notice your efforts?  If not, don't get discouraged.  It's natural for us to overlook the things others do for us when life gets in the way. There have been times I'm sure you have overlooked special things they've done for you, so just keep working on your challenges...it's worth it, I promise.

Tomorrow's challenge is intended to bring back intimacy.  I'm not talking about "getting it on", I mean true physical intimacy.  Studies show that the longer a couple cohabitates, the less they touch one another.  Bring back the days when you used to cuddle just because you wanted to be near them, or making out without the sex.  Massage your partner, snuggle with them on the couch, rub their feet, draw them a bubble bath and wash their hair.  Make this challenge fun!  And by all means, DON'T keep your hands to yourself!  

This challenge is intended to reintroduce you to the importance of physical touch outside of the bedroom.  Even though you may want to, don't let this challenge lead to sex.  It runs the risk of seeming like you completed the challenge for that specific reason, and that isn't its meaning at all.  Enjoy your challenge tomorrow and I will see you back here tomorrow night. 

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