Have you ever wondered why some people can be with many lovers, some can be alone and some feel complete only when they have found the one?
It may seem arbitrary how we love another but in fact it is not. It seems that for most of us finding another to ‘union’ with is a predominate desire. According to the book 2012: You Have a Choice by Sri Ram Ka and Kira Raa, two amazing teachers of the evolution of humanity, we actually come into this life in a particular soul group that denotes how we desire to play with others in the world.
A soul group is a group energy that our soul resonates with. There are essentially four soul groups which are: Union, Omni, dual and Multi-expressional.
Union: For those of you who long to be with their one and only, they feel incomplete until they meet that person and then they feel whole. You may even feel as if you and your partner are from one soul you feel so connected. They will generally have had a lot of relationships until they meet their partner. They seek reunification with their soul partner.
Omni: These people seem to be able to live alone and feel fulfilled in their lives with or without a partner. They may be free spirits that travel the globe and who seem to have a life where they meet many people. They may like to have many lovers but really don’t need or want to be partnered with anyone. They do seek not to be alone, are perceived as distant and find peace with God within.
Dual: These people feel whole and complete within themselves and yet they also desire to be with a beloved. They desire to partner but if they do not do that they are fine being alone. They seek to know themselves and do better in a relationship.
Multi-expressional: These are the people who are poly-amorous and enjoy having many people to love. They prefer to be playing the field but can be with one main partner as long as they can still enjoy others as well. They know how to handle multiple relationships well and are able to integrate many ways to express their love.
There has been for many hundreds of years only one primary way of being in relationship throughout the Western world primarily, and that is married and monogamous. But today we are beyond the time when our choices are limited.
Being true to our self is more important that being true to an institution.
People are yearning for true energetic partnerships, aligning and feeling congruent with each other. During this time in our history people are coming back together and finding themselves called into new partnerships. There is a deep inner peace that one finds when you meet someone from your own soul group or someone who is similar with your soul group energy.
When you find yourself with someone who is different from yourself, who may desire to be more poly than you, you can then understand that their original soul group is probably Multi-expressional and therefore not likely to settle down with one person. There is no need for you to try to make any one be any other way than they are.
Accepting someone the way they are is a gift we give to ourselves and to others.
Then if you are not comfortable with who they are you can change the form of the relationship which may be the best thing for the both of you. Rather than making someone wrong for being true to themselves, knowing what energetic soul group we belong to can help us to feel more compassion for them and help us to choose people we are more compatible with.