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Two Types Of Guys In The Dating World

There are two different types of people in the dating world. The ones that are after Lust and looks. Then there are the ones that are after personality and a long term relationship.
If you are in your late 20's, looking for love and still have not found it yet, it may be time to rethink your checklist. Are you going after the super hot guys and discarding other guys because they are "too nice?" If you are than that is your problem.
A guy could be good looking and have a personality. The fun hot guys are the ones that do not want a long term relationship. All they want is sex and they think they are God's gift. They will make you feel as if you are special and then when they are done with you they will move onto their next victim in their game of how many girls they could get.
The nice guy is the one that may not be that cute but their personality is what makes it cute. He loves his family and is into video games. He is the guy that is caring and romantic. He will make you feel as if you are the only girl in the world and he means it. He won't tell you anything you want to hear to get you into bed. All he will want to do is be with you.
Now focus on you. Are you going to clubs and going after the hot guys? Do you leave bars and clubs complaining how no guy is nice? If you do than that is your problem.
Nice guys could be at bars but most likely they are looking for one thing. Try going to a bookstore or church or even be friends first.
The part of why you are alone is because you are going after the wrong guy. Looks fade but personality doesen't. If you want a hot guy than you are only going for short term relationships. If you want a long term relationship start going for the nice guy.