Women think a lot about sex and because sex is very mental for women, they tend to have much more wild and naughty sexual fantasies than men. It’s just a sad fact that many men don’t realize this and therefore don’t actually satisfy their women in bed. So, what do women really want in bed? Does she have the same wants, needs, desires and cravings as you do? And what about sexual fantasies? What are the top sexual fantasies for women? Below is a list of the top female sexual fantasies.
1. Dirty talk
Yes dirty talk, remember how we just mentioned that for women, sex is mental. Well, one of the best ways to stimulate a woman’s mind in the bedroom is dirty talk. Start talking dirty to your woman every time you want to have sex. She will love it and it will be easier to make her climax when you use your voice.
The modern woman prefers a real man who is not afraid to embrace his testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down and thrusting her thighs apart with your knee. She wants to feel your fingers snake all through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to owned. Read more:[Adding adventure in bondage]
3. Outstanding oral sex
Many men give oral sex as if it was a chore and most women can actually sense this. When a woman senses that a man is not really enjoying giving her the oral sex, it lowers the pleasure for her and she probably won’t even have an orgasm. Many women crave for a man who gives them oral sex with great passion and explores every part of her body. Women also like to be mentally stimulated as well.
4. Naughty school girl
You will be surprised to know that the Britney Spears fantasy is not just for men. Ladies love the idea of dressing up like a school and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many women would even love to take this further and play the naughty school girl who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give that spanking she craves. Read more:[5 role-playing tips to spice up your sex life]
You will be surprised to hear this, but this is one amongst the most popular sexual fantasies for women. Many women will not admit to a threesome, but they would secretly love to have sex with their man and another man or woman. However, you need to be careful on how to go about this, but if you decide to do it, it could be one of the most powerful sexual experiences of your life. 2 men and 1 woman is a more powerful fantasy for many women as it allows them to totally let go and be raved by 2 strong, masculine guys. Read more:[Threesome MMF: Why it's healthy in any relationship]
6. Sex with a stranger
Many women would love to experience a no-strings-attached sex. A woman’s libido gets fired up at the idea of a handsome male approaching in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to a room for a wild hot night of sex. Read more:[Statistics on a growing trend: Watching your wife have sex with another man]
Many women have had voyeuristic fantasies, from imagining watching their men masturbating to their neighbors having sex. Most women fantasize themselves being the modern-day Linda Loveless, with more ladies making a porn movie in their heads. Although voyeurism is number 7 on this list, several women think about this one often. Read more:[Joining a swingers club is the best way to experience voyeurism]
She might cringe when you bring up the idea of making some homemade porn flicks, but your lady has probably fantasized about doing this at one point. Believe it or not but some women even take this desire to the next level, fantasizing about others watching you make love to her in a public place. Read more:[Should you make a sex tape to add passion in your relationship?]
9. Private dancer
Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting, but they actually fantasize about taking it all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease, and she would definitely love to give you a private lap dance. This is because your enjoyment tells her you find her attractive and your erection tells her she has control.
10. Force Fantasies
This is one of the top sexual fantasies for women. The fantasy allows a woman to have a wild, dirty sex she craves without any feelings of guilt. Such a woman fantasizes about a gorgeous man carrying her of to his bedroom and quickly getting down to serious business. She will off course protest, but on the inside, she will love every bit of it. Some women want the idea of multiple men, two or even three men having her all at once, better known as a foursome. Read more:[How good is a MMMF foursome for a relationship?]