Timing is everything. Planning and execution will only get you so far if the timing is off. Relationships are no different. Sometimes women meet men in passing or who are in relationships and for some reason you are just drawn to them. It has absolutely nothing to do with their look as much as it does with something that person possesses internally that makes you want to get to know them better.
However, just because you meet someone and feel an instant attraction doesn’t mean that at that particular moment in time you are meant to be together or even interact for that matter. People come into your life for so many different reasons and majority of the men that cross your path are not meant for you to date. It’s all about the timing of the meeting.
For instance, depending on a man’s career, title, how much money he makes, and relationship status, you may be quite perfect for one another but it might not be the right time for you to act on those feelings. Women have to understand that you can’t measure every potential date or eye candy as a romantic interest. Because though you may think that the timing couldn’t be perfect from your end, it takes two people in order to make a relationship work and just because you’re on board doesn’t mean the other person will follow suit.
This may sound hard to take but it’s nothing but the truth. We’ve all met people that we know would be absolutely perfect for us if the situation or circumstances that established our encounter were different, but you can’t put your life on hold waiting on a man from your past or present to get with the program. You have to live in the now. You never know what the future holds because past loves could very well become future partners but let time play out and see what happens.
A great place to understand timing would be the market place in Atlantic Station. Depending on when you arrive, a painting, body oil or even accessory could be gone within the blink of an eye. Even a potential romantic interest. Remember to also practice patience. Though timing is important, you can’t be too hasty with love.