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The power of projecting our fears and needs and how it affects our lives.

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How many times have you had a friend mention to you that he or she feels so unloved? Whether they do it by wondering who and when they will meet another. Or by asking how you found your partner and how you are able to keep such a pure and powerful relationship together? Is this you? Do you look upon others and wish you had what they have? Are you constantly looking for love? Meeting one person after another, thinking that this is the one, only to find they slip away in the night never to be seen or heard from again.

Time for you to WAKE UP! We all have something wonderful to share, a beauty that is laying deep down inside. Shake it up and Wake up. See yourself as you truly are! Reach down inside grab it! Caress it! Touch yourself on an emotional level like never before!

If you are having a hard time understanding what you want then soak on it… Soak you say? Yes soak! Do the one thing that allows you to think without straining. Whether it is driving down a curvy mountain road, or leaving the kids at family members home for a few hours. Going home drawing a bath and touching yourself down low and applying some good old physical Self-Love.

Do whatever it takes to feel! Not Judge yourself, just FEEL each and every part of that beautiful Body and Soul!

Sometimes we project what we really feel deep down inside, upon others… Actually most of the time we do this whether we want to or not. There in lies the problem. If we feel that we are lacking then we create a lack within our lives. If we feel unloved then we are unloved! If you tell yourself you need a man or a woman to be happy you will continuously search for that person. Always searching but never being happy. We create through a little thing called sub-consciousness! So it is imperative that we give it our sub-consciousness the clearest and most detailed images possible.

The easiest way to do this is the find that happiness within yourself FIRST!

‘Be able to please and love yourself if you expect to allow someone else to please or share his or her love with you. Learn your own body. See and experience your body in different ways. Once you reach this understanding, you will be pleasured, and able to accept love more easily from another.’ ( The Holy G-Rail)

Think about it this way… If on a physical and/or emotional level you do not know how to get yourself off. How can you expect someone else to do it for you? I mean really, if you do not know what you are feeling for how can you experience it? Really experience it. Sure there is a first time for an experience, yet when it comes naturally and by… lets say accident (although there are no accidents) then we really do it correctly. This is something you and I do for the pure joy of experiencing and creating something new and with purified intention.

If we try to force things then we get caught up in the act of projecting what we think may happen or what it may feel like upon ourselves and then ultimately upon others and that is where things can get dicey and unclear.

OK… Time to relax and give it up! There is a unique duality in giving up to get off, or in the same sense, giving up the controlling nature of yourself so that you may really lift the veils that bind you to yourself.

People, its time to slow down just for a moment and take the time to find the love that is deep down within us all, share it with yourself thus the only projection you put out is Love and it will come back 10 times as strong. In the end you will gain everything your heart desires! [Copyright Michael Schuessler 2011)]

Smiles.
-Michael Schuessler-
Changing The World One Orgasm ~ At A Time™


Michael Schuessler
, author of the sex and sensuality classic, ‘The Holy G-rail', Please visit his website, www.theholyg-rail.com to see all the different forms of Michaels works of creativity.

If you have any questions, in the sensual or sexual realm of life please E-mail me. (Use an alias if you'd like to keep your privacy). I also do private One on One consultations at 1-855-Holy G 4 U (1-855-465-9448) All calls are strictly confidential.If you have any questions or just need someone to listen, please call. I am here for you!

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