Doesn't he mean the ins and "outs" of Internet dating? No! We should all be interested in the ins and outs of Internet dating, so what are the ins and uns! This is a very odd title for a tidbit of Internet dating wisdom. However, you who have clicked on this post are the lucky ones because here we explore traits of a mate that can ruin relationships. Many of these behavioral traits are not evident early on in the dating process as they are hidden while people are on their “best behavior.” Eventually they surface and you really need to be ready to say goodbye, because they are insidious and ultimately take their toll on you. Once you are hooked on a mates good traits, it makes it harder to leave because of their bad traits.
And now for the ins: intolerant – indecisive – incompetent – insincere – insecure – incomprehensible – inept – inconsiderate – intolerant – inconsistent – inscrutable – insidious
Now for the uns: unsure - unreliable - unrepentant – unresponsive – uninvolved – uncomfortable – unemotional – unscrupulous – uncooperative – underachiever
This is a partial list. You can add many others, especially if you are good at Scrabble or cross word puzzles.
These traits define those who can never seem to make up their minds, are afraid to act, let you down, seem to make poor choices and generally hurt you or annoy you to death!
Not to fret mates and maidens, no one’s perfect. It's all about degrees. Perhaps everyone is inconsiderate at times or so it may seem, especially to those who are themselves inconsiderate. You have a problem if your intended mate has too many of these traits, and you should avoid those who exhibit these traits too regularly.
Beware the ins and uns of Internet dating!
And what about all those married people who recognize these negative traits in their mates? It's not easy to deal with these people, and if you can't seem to have a productive conversation about things that need work in a relationship, then pretty soon you may be involved with Internet dating where stellar advice helps keep you out of trouble
For more advice on Internet dating go to my blog:: http://www.whoyoudatingnow.com
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