Saturday night dates tell you a lot about your relationship. When a man asks you out for consistent Saturday night dates, this tells you how he feels about you, how serious he is about you, whether you're the number one woman in his life romantically and where he sees the relationship heading. When a man consistently (on a weekly basis) asks you out for every Saturday night, you can be pretty sure he is really into you, and you're his number one girl.
-When a man skips seeing you on Saturday night, and you've been on three or more dates, or sees you every other Saturday night, and he's not working, you can be pretty sure he's either dating another woman or is looking to meet more women. If you're not exclusive, that's okay. Date other men as well and start from now only accepting Saturday night date requests made in advance. Never spell out for a man that he must ask you out for Sat. night. Nicely tell him you're busy for whatever other day he's asking you out, until he starts asking for Sat. night. If he likes you, he'll get it. If he doesn't, he's just looking for something very casual or he's seeing another woman he likes better. If you only want a casual relationship, then of course it's okay for you to accept any other date besides Saturday. But if you're looking for a man who also wants a serious relationship, observe his actions, not what he says he wants. His actions will tell you everything you need to know about the kind of man he is and what he's looking for. And a man who is serious about you and who is really into you will tie up your Saturday nights so no other man can get to you!
-If a man has not asked you out for Sat. night by the third date, politely tell him you'd love to go out, but are busy for whatever day he's asking you out. The first two dates can be any other day of the week, but the third date and onwards should be on Sat. night.
-Sat. night dates weed out married men and men with girlfriends who can never you see you on Saturday, and instead ask you for Friday night when they can say they're at happy hour with the boys, or during the week when they're "working late."
-Once he finally starts asking you out for Sat. night (this may take up to a month or a month and a half to happen), accept! You want to reward him for getting it right. Don't confuse him by rejecting his date request. Make sure your Sat. nights are free for dates with men (since you only accept dates in advance it should be easy to schedule your other activities). Save Friday nights for girl time and Sunday for family!
Consistent weekly Sat. night dates are the litmus test for where the relationship is headed.
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