The Ex - Factor

Humans are fortunate throughout life, and at times unfortunate, to experience a wide variety of romantic relationships. The depth may range from passing notes and holding hands, to exchanging vows and starting families. These relationships often times allow for exposure to a plethora of emotion, and potentially life long lessons, which may be carried forever along the journey of life. Continuous growth, exploration, and adaptation of individual wants and desires shine like beacons on the path to soul companionship. However, what is to be said of physical relationships with former emotional partners? Should it be considered a foolish pursuit to cross a bridge from the past on the road to the future? These encounters may take on many forms, and have varied results. Those incidents of late night "drunk dialing" seems to be rather prevalent in society today, and can leave both parties feeling confused and lost. Old wounds and hurt feelings may surface, leaving both parties at the mercy of their own foolish decision. Relationships that have ended amicably may allow for such rendezvous with more of a diplomatic tone. Loneliness and physical desire can appear at times to be overwhelming obstacles, though with the help of a trusted lover can be easily overcome. The warning remains illuminated however, for all those who dare to tread this narrow lane. The emotional aspect remains the tidal wave that can potentially drown all involved if it is overlooked. One night of passion can lead to a world of hurt if both parties are not clear of the intent. Should one party desire to rekindle the old flame, pain and anger are sure to follow if the feeling is not mutual. It must be remembered that sex is a very complicated issue, and it has different meanings to everyone involved. When ex-lovers are unable to seperate past love from temporary lust, they are truly unable to be friends with benefits.