We have probably all heard our fair share of everyone’s opinions on what we ought to do to be successful in dating. Unfortunately, not all these dating tips are the best and many are only meant to get us as far as getting someone to “want” us—which as flattering as that might sound, is a lot different from getting someone to actually want to be with us. So for those of us who want something that will blossom rather than tends to fade, here we break down the most essential dating tips on how to make someone feel great around you and want to be around you time and time again.
1) Watch what you say and do! All it takes is one word or one move to make someone feel completely different about you. So, if something is not becoming or unpleasant— including negativity, saying things repetitively, talking continuously or doing things thoughtlessly, stay away from it! Instead, make the moments count by acting and speaking with purpose and meaning.
2) Get more comfortable around men or women! Learn to recognize and engage someone by being attentive to who that person is as an individual. Watch, listen and pay attention to how and why he or she responds to things. Whether you are romantically interested or not, it can be a great opportunity to gain a friend and understanding.
3) Practice being less attached to results: If you expect too much in dating, you can end up doing a lot of things you shouldn't do—like pushing yourself or others too far or losing touch with what matters. Remember that no matter how much you want something, you can’t do much more than just be the best you can be. The best attitude is to take things in stride, don’t let yourself get easily disappointed and make sure to be open to good things as they come!
4) Get happy! When you are genuinely happy, it radiates something very attractive and memorable to others. Find something fulfilling that you enjoy and takes heart and practice and always keep improving your life’s details!
5) Your best Image: Everyone has great things about their image and things that they can work on. Look at yourself and find your best smile, your most attractive energy when you speak, your most attractive movements, postures, expressions and what styles look best on you (for affordable and stylish apparel check out www.hm.com or www.zara.com).
So remember, try these dating tips and make each moment count! Not only will you make a great and memorable impression on others, but you will start being much more successful in dating.
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