The book Maria Shriver should have had when Schwarzenegger was cheating on her

Maria Shriver should have had a copy of The Cheat Sheet when Arnold Schwarzenegger started cheating on her with the family housekeeper, Mildred Patty Baena.

If Maria had had a copy of this book to consult in the early stages of Schwarzenegger’s affair, , she might have been able to nip it in the bud, before his lovechild, Joseph Baena, was conceived, thereby avoiding an infidelity scandal and divorce.. See Links toClear Pictures of Arnold Schwarzenegger’s Love Child – See HimforYourself and People Disagree on Whether or Not Schwarzenegger’s Love Child Looks Like Him.

View slideshow: The Cheat Sheet by Stephany Alexander and Rea Frey

Colleague, friend, and dating/infidelity expert Stephany Alexander has co-authored a new infidelity book that belongs on the personal bookshelf of every woman, especially if she’s married or in a committed relationship.

Stephany and I were guests last month on BBC discussing the sex scandals involving Dominique Strauss-Kahn, Arnold Scharzenegger, Anthony Weiner, and the topic of why men cheat – a topic that Stephany covers with in her new book. See . See 25 Reasons Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat vs Why Men Cheat- They Cheat for Different Reasons.

How The Cheat Sheet Can Benefit Victims of Infidelity

As the founder of WomanSavers.com. Stephany has particular insight into the issues common to women who have been betrayed by their mates.

Stephany’s new book, entitled, THE CHEAT SHEET: A Clue-By-Clue Guide To Finding Out If He's Unfaithful, andco-authored with relationship writer, Rea Frey, the book coaches women on how spot the warning signs of infidelity, ho w to recognize the psychological factors that lead to cheating, how to catch the cheater in act, and how to pick up the pieces of their lives and move forward, with or without the cheater.

Written to help women deal with infidelity, at any stage in their relationship, whether it’s the first date, or several years into a marriage or committed relationship, The Cheat Sheet will prove to be an invaluable guide for any woman who is faced with the problem of an unfaithful mate. See What Should I Do If I Think He Is Cheating on Me?

How The Cheat Sheet Would Have Helped Maria Shriver

Not only would The Cheat Sheet have helped Maria Shriver spot the signs of infidelity in the early stages of Schwarzenegger’s affair with housekeeper, Mildred Patty Baena; it would also have given Maria some insight as to why Schwarzenegger had the affair. See 25 Reasons Why Men Cheat and Is He Cheating on You? - 6 Articles to Help You Understand His Infidelity.

With the help of The Cheat Sheet, Maria might have been able to short-circuit Schwarzenegger’s affair, salvage her marriage, and keep her family intact before it reached the point of divorce, rather than after the fact. See Maria Shriver Makes a Preemptive Strike Against Arnold Schwarzenegger.

Now that the Schwarzenegger – Shriver divorce is in progress, The Cheat Sheet, can also offer Maria Shriver sound advice as she attempts to put the pieces of her shattered life back together again.

More Details about What The Cheat Sheet Contains

The foreword of The Cheat Sheetwas written byTommy Habeeb, who hosted, wrote, and co-produced the nationally syndicated TV reality series, Cheaters, between 2000 and 2003.

Habeeb says, “The authors manage to draw the reader into the secret lives of philanderers by giving first-hand accounts of cheating stories. The reader discovers how cheaters justify their acts, handle guilt, cope with double lives, and handle the search for commitment and outside gratification.” See Is He Cheating on You? - 6 Articles to Help You Understand His Infidelity

The Cheat Sheet contains information on physical infidelity, emotional infidelity, workplace infidelity, online infidelity, and more – all intertwined with true infidelity stories.

Chapters in The Cheat Sheet cover physical infidelity, emotional infidelity, workplace infidelity, online infidelity and more, helping readers detect infidelity the “old-fashioned way” with lists of telltale signs and what to look for, as well as with the use of modern technology such as GPS trackers, and more. See What You Need to Know Before Using a GPS Tracker to Spy on Your Cheating Spouse

The Cheat Sheet is available from your local book store, or from Amazon.com.

For practical advice on dealing with infidelity, visit www.NationalInfidelity.com, or see the list below.

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Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

For practical advice on dealing with infidelity, visit www.NationalInfidelity.com, or see the list below.

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