The 3 Steve Harvey YouTube videos in which Steve’s ex-wife, Mary Harvey, dishes the dirt on the well-known comedian, have already reached a combined total of well over half a million views.
In a 3-part YouTube video series, Mary alleges that during their 16-year marriage, Steve Harvey cheated on her with several women.
Mary claims that Steve, eventually divorced her and married one of his mistresses, Marjorie Bridges, who is Steve Harvey’s third, and current wife.
The internet is abuzz with the shocking allegations Mary Harvey is making about her ex-husband, Steve Harvey, some of which are listed below.
According to Mary, when Steve learned that she was going to divorce him because of his infidelity, he:
- walked out on her, leaving her with nothing. (See Will He Leave You for Her?)
- moved into their New York apartment, which she had never seen, where he was joined by his then-mistress Marjorie Bridges, who is now his current wife. ( See What You Need to Know about Your Husband’s Mistress and Why )
- had their housekeeper pack his belongings and forward them to New York
- had her evicted from their home.
- Manipulated the judge into stripping her of “all the money, all the businesses, the cars – everything” leaving her with nothing (See What a Betrayed Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know )
- Took their son, Wynton, now 15 years old, from her, and then turned the boy against her.
- Didn’t even bother to show up at the divorce proceedings, so she could at least have closure, and to this day has never even apologized to her for what he did. (See How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair )
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Mary Says Steve Harvey Won’t Let Her Move On
To add insult to injury, Mary says Steve Harvey is suing her because he holds her responsible for Oprah Winfrey not giving him his own TV show on her new Oprah Winfrey Network. See (Tell Your Infidelity Story in a TV Documentary on the New Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN)
Mary says that as much as she tries to move forward and put this behind her, she keeps getting pulled back into a situation that she doesn’t want to be a part of.
That’s why Mary says she decided to speak out on her YouTube videos about Steve.
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What People are Saying about theSteve Harvey YouTube Videos
Mary Harvey’s YouTube videos have generated some very heated internet discussions and highly opinionated comments, including the ones below.
Here’s what some of those who’ve seen Mary’s YouTube videos about Steve Harvey, have to say:
After hearing Mary Harvey’s experiences with Steve Harvey, I almost cried myself. Every word that Mary Harvey so eloquently spoke was with great passion. I believe there is some validity to what she is saying. . . my instincts tell me she was definitely mistreated in her 17 year old relationship with Mr. Harvey. I can’t believe that a husband with so much money would leave the mother of his child penniless, homeless, and distraught. After all, she did aid in his successfully career. It really was pathetic of Mr. Harvey to use his money and power to obtain sole custody of their son and to withhold millions of dollars from his ex-wife. How can Mr. Harvey’s current wife hold her head up high in public, knowing that she stole someone else’s husband, destroyed a family, and enjoying benefits that rightfully belong to Mary Harvey.
He is being nonchalant with the woman who was there with him through the tough times and the woman who barged into their marriage is living the high life
**** hath no fury like a women scorned! Never underestimate the wrath of a women done wrong. I know that my husband's ex will go to any length to make him look bad to their sons and anyone who listens. She tells them and others that I stole him away from her when in fact they separated 2 years before I met him. The final divorce had not been signed because of wrangling over property. She tells people I am a homewrecker and my husband a cheater. And yes, she sounds sincere when she says it as well. You cant believe everything you hear.
Steve if you were really as honorable as you pretend to be, you would do the right thing. Mary was with you thru the lean years. The least you could do is be generous with her now that you're a multimillionaire. You should . . . apologize for cheating on her, apologize for swindling her out of the appropriate alimony/child support, and give her the money she deserves. I believe her. You cheated on her with Marjorie. What are you suing her for? She has nothing and you have millions. Shame on you!!
After watching the videos, what’s apparent is Mary Harvey was taken advantage of when she was emotionally crippled. That takes a very SPECIAL kind of narcissist. He kicked her in the gut and stepped on her back on his way out.
. . . shame on you for setting such a bad example for your young son. i found your ex-wife to be sincere and she's entitled to tell her side of the story without you coming after her with lawyers!
Wow, I remember the days when steve spoke very highly of his then wife Mary. She was the best thing walking according to him. I don't think the question is why is Mary doing this now but the question is what took her so long. steve totally dogged this woman who was main supporter for 15 + years. . . to toss her aside only displayed the type of man steve really is.
She was the dumb one for not getting her own lawyer in the custody battle, she used his lawyer. It's been 6 years since their divorce, I'm sorry, but get over it. She supposedly had an affair with Steve when he was with his first wife. So maybe she's getting what came to her . . . She said way too much in that long video rant about their marriage . . . Once you go public, people start to dig into your past.
Good Steve... your ex-wife just seems like a bitter shrew who can't let the past go, even if it was more than 6 years ago... what a pathetic lady! Serves her right not to have custody.
Steve is a liar! She's not bitter, she's a woman with her true story . . . his current wife Marj is nothing more than a woman from his old neighborhood with two ex-drug dealer kingpins for exhusbands! I'm so glad Oprah didnt give him a show to talk smack about his so called relationship books He's a phony and a fake!
Regardless of who is right or wrong, it's HORRIBLE that he has sole custody. Unless the woman is an addict or abusive, it's shameful for a child to not be equally part of both parents lifes. What woman wouldn't be devastated over losing custody of their child. It's not something you ever get over.
Oh paaalease Steve Harvey, dont pretend to care about your son. If your son was really your priority you would not have been dogging his mother and eventually throwing her out like a used rag leaving her with nothing.
Steve Harvey is such a joke, running around here passing out relationship advice. And married to his former mistress
It speaks volumes that the courts gave full custody to the father versus the mother.
No one is looking at the fact that Mary was with Steve when she knew he was married to his first wife. So what are we really talking about here? She needs to just move on.
So if the man is changed. He can stop keeping Winston from her. And Pay her child support and write her a check for all the hell he has put her through. She needs to find an expert in Parental alienation Syndrome.. Move on? You have got to be kidding me. While this narcissist goes around trying to come off as a decent guy.
You can't just take a child, the court awards custody to the parent who is deemed more fit to take care of the child. And there has to be a really good reason for a court to take a child away from it's mother. That almost never happens even if your rich, so what is she hiding about her past?
I believe her and Steve had the money and resources to take her child.
Remember! Mary is the same woman Steve stalked at her job in a dept store cosmetic counter. He begged her to go out with him and she finally did and later married him, help build his career, lived in a car with him. He probably only took his son to keep from paying child support . . . He's never home, so how can he love and nurture this child? That's why Oprah Winfrey wouldn't touch you. Little do you know, she investigated your life and made the right choice!
Steve is a serial cheater and a despicable person. I've been listening to him for years. He praised Mary over and over again when he became famous and got the Steve Harvey Show. Now he cheats on her, treats her like dirt and takes her child so that he doesn't have to pay her child support.
Why is anyone surprised about his behavior? The man has had three wives. That says a lot. Furthermore, folks need to stop being so gullible by buying all of the books that charlatans like Steve and others put out to make themselves rich. I love Steve as a comedian but have no illusions about what his game is when it comes to making a buck off of the naïve.
I love Steve Harvey, but I didnt even know he had been married three times, therefore he has NO BUSINESS GIVING ANYONE RELATIONSHIP ADVISE.
. why in the world did they have the same lawyer representing them both during the divorce proceedings? That's crazy! Wouldn't that be a conflict of interests? He (Steve) said there's a reason why Mary doesn't have custody of Wynton. Yeah..There's a reason alright! . . . How in the world could an attorney do whats best for "both" parties in a divorce..and you're representing both the parties involved.
What Do You Think about the Steve Harvey YouTube Videos?
People have some very strong opinions about Steve Harvey, Mary Harvey, and the claims Mary made in her YouTube videos.
If you would like to voice your opinion about Steve or Mary Harvey, or the YouTube videos, feel free to leave your comments in the box below.
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Comments
If Steve meant right by Mary he would have done the right thing by her when they divorced. If he truly loved his son as he says, he would have made sure that his mother had equal time. It's important for a child to have a good relationship with both parents. When Steve says he found God but also says God is not finished with him yet. That means he can keep right on being who he has always been. If his life had really changed, his ex wife would not be somewhere in a one bed-room apartment. Please.
So that means he must take care of her???....his ex-wife. This is why i was ALWAYs taught to have my own and not to depend on a man for anything, because things like this do happen.
People are harping on the fact Mary doesn't have custody so something must be wrong with her. They refuse to look at the celebrity influence, money and legal manipulation involved throughout the proceedings. Whether Mary met Steve when he was married to wife #1 is not Mary's problem. It seems Steve has a problem with loyalty. He gets what he wants and then moves on to the next purpose that validates him. Now to read that Marjorie is an old childhood friend makes all the more sense. He went back to pursue the kiddy crush on someone who wouldn't give him the time of day until he could pay for her time. LOL. What a fool we have in Steve. As for Oprah not giving him the show, sue Oprah not Mary. She doesn't have anything to give but her pride and as many have said, if Steve found God (rolls eyes) then he would live and act according the Word and he's not. He's using religion when convenient and living a worldly life because he's a slave to money. Pathetic and that's why he's losing sleep at night worried about losing it all just like Mary lost it all.
Stand up and be a man Harvey.. What is hidden in the dark will come to the light. Pay your dues to this woman Harvey. God has given you enough time to get it right, so now he has exposed you to the world.
CC
My question is why is anyone surprised? Family court isn't about law....it's all politics all the time. Details at Familylawcourts.com
I believe everything Ms. Mary has said, including the assertion that Steve cheated on her with Marjorie and others. This is not the first time that statement of infidelity has come to me, as I've gotten it from people I know who's been close to his actions. His books seem to be coming from his experience of being a womanizer, not from hearing it or witnessing it through other men.
I also believe Steve should have made sure Wynton maintained a relationship of respect for his mother and that he should foster a close communication with her, regardless of how he feels about his ex-wife.
Not only that, I believe it would have only been right for him to make sure Ms. Mary is financially set. She deserves that much. After all, it wouldn't hurt his bankroll to do that.
You can pray all day, go on air and talk about God all you want, and pay off anyone under-the-table who is likewise money hungry; but until you do right in the eyes of God, your blessings are only an illusion. Ultimately, you WILL reap what you sow.
My comment is i believe everything this woman is saying. I was skeptically at first, but after actually seeing the youtubes and the evidents with the emails and letters. O she is telling the truth. The reason Steve has custody of their son is because he said long time ago no other man would be raising his son. Not because she was a bad mother. Steve owes this woman more then just money, but also a relationship with their child!!!!
How do we know the emails were written by Steve??? Boy are we quick to judge. I saw them too but the info was blacked out and if she was putting him on blast she should not have blacked out everything. She signed a confidentialty paper.....she must have forgotten about that.
diary of a mad black woman. past is the past...move on! i guarantee if Steve Harvey was not successfull, she wouldnt have done this.....get a job lady!
You are right about his success. Marjorie the new wife would not be there if he was not successful. Believe that. Mary the EX was there when he had nothing. And you are right - she should move on for her sanity. BUT Steve and the Ex keep trying to sue the woman. Dang what else can they get from her. They have it all.
It is not unusual to hear this story. Sure it is the truth. This is everyday relationships. The woman supports the man on his way up, man gets money and gets a younger better looking wife, dumps the woman that stood by his side when he had absolutely NOTHING. The new woman gets all the rewards from the old chicks hard work, sacrifice, and pain. Steve looks a hot old mess like most men do with the younger replacements. I hate most of all that women are not paying attention. If he was my man.... the money would already be in the bank ready for the day baby. He gave her plenty of signs. You can't "work on a relationship" if you man is gone all the time. Women need to take heed and stop playing themselves!
Writing an article is like riding a bicycle; you must have balance. Can we have Steve Harvey's side of the story?
This is the way I see it. Whay didnt she come out sooner. Its been 6 years Mary, MOVE THE **** ON, thats allt he closure you need. You dont need a book to tell you what to do. You went all the way back to when and how you met him, sounds like to me you still love him. Get over it! Forgive him for yourself and keep it rolling. Did you ever think about how your son would feel about these videos?? I dont think you did. And a judge almost never takes custody from a mother, so what are you hinding, you telling all of Steve's business??!! I have heard Steve say on his show, yes he was married two times and he messed up! Move on lady, move on. Reading the comments wow, we are quick to judge. I am simply making an observation here. But really, let it go.
I have worked in the child welfare system for over 20 yrs. If the money is there and you are connected it is easier than you think for a father to get sole custody. The old saying money talks bull**** walks. It is so sad. I have followed Steve Harvey's career since the days of his stand up in Augusta, Ga. when no one even knew who he was. He professes under the eyes of God to be a changed man. You do not treat a dog the way he has treated Mary. No matter what the issues have been, you treat people with respect. I believe that when Mary saw the Essence cover with he and the new wife trying to exemplify love and family (yada yada) she snapped and felt the need to tell the world what is really going on. Whether she still loves him or not is not the issue. It is vital that he has been exposed. Now you can make the conscious decision of whether you want to continue to support him or not. I choose not! Peace
In the video she made reference to the Essence article and that she was being drawn into it again. I do not understand her logic. He mentioned her with respect and acknowledgement. there was no negativity. We all, have things in my past that we want hidden because they were not THERE yet. I think she wrapped her whole world around him and did not have any outside interests - if she had, she would have had someone else to ask about a lawyer. Ladies need to have their own. At Least Steve harvey - God is not through with me yet" has turned his life around and it doing good things with his mentoring, shows, etc. He mentions God all the time "Work in progress". Did Mary ever mention God at any time when she spoke? Hang in there - Steve Harvey - God will correct the past and provide for the future.
If you read all the blogs and websites, even from as far back as 2009; they all say basically the same story. Marjorie aka "Lady Heroin" who after her 2nd drug dealer husband went to jail hooked up with Steve. He can issue 100 attorney statements. The circumstances speak for themselves, after years of publically praising Mary. He cheated on her and left her for someone else then infers/ talks negative things about Mary on the radio. What a dillusional man he is, how can Mary be responsible for him not getting the Oprah show? He is a narcassist that lives in his own fantasy world where he is king and HOT. Anyhing that goes wrong is someone elses fault. Oprah did not give him a show. His fragile ego could not handle Oprah's rejection, so it was Marys fault . Oprah knew Marjorie's past was going to come out, she was not about to spend millions in production costs, advertising etc. to lose it all .She was not go give you a show because of YOU and your evil, selfish ways Steve. Maybe she just thought your show was stupid or she may not even like you Steve, you can't mac her , Big Daddy. People should really look at the logic, his story does not make sense. But Mary's does, Also, what he did to the late comedian, Bernie Mac. Steve is a backstabber . Iam glad Mary exposed hiim Good for you Mary. Get him Mary!!! I will pray for your victory Mary!! Hugs and Kisses Bette
It seems as if Steve is so annoyed, p'od, upset, and raging mad about former Missus Mary taking it to the stage via You Tube about the man whore he was...He and former Mistress/Current Missus Marjorie is seeking the ultimate revenge against a woman whom he literally tear down...Maybe it hurts Steve too much acknowledging and appreciating Missus Mary because it reminds him of his struggling days. Not to mention, it wasn't cool for him trying to undermine the late great Bernie Mac either. If Mary's allegations are true, I have no understanding of this "Relationship Expert Wannabe's Hustle."
steve seems to be a man moving forward for the best so let us all pray that God will touch his heart and the lawsuit will be dropped and maybe he can try to assist his son with the relationship with his mother but let us not be fooled if Mr.Harvey is truely a work in progress as he claim to be he will not be allowed to continue in such a foolish and carefree way according to scripture those he love he chastise(God).So rather than degrading Mr. Harvey on behalf of his ex-wife let's just pray for the betterment of them both.PEACE TO ALL INCLUDING STEVE AND EX WIFE ,NEW WIFE AND CHILDREN AND ALL WHO ARE WRITING ON THIS BLOG THOSE WHO LOVE HIM AND THOSE WHO LOVE TO HATE HIM.KEEP GOD FIRST IN YOUR LIFE OR IF YOU DON'T KNOW HIM GET TO KNOW HIM BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE ,AND STOP BEING JUDGEMENTAL LIVE THE LIFE GOD HAS GIVEN YOU TO LEAD AND PRAY FOR OTHERS IN MARITAL STRESS
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