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Navigating the Power Shift is important to remember in all aspects of your relationship, including the bedroom. When men were younger they were consumed with lust and passion and intoxicated by the seduction of your young, female body. But as men age, they may need a bit more participation from a woman in order to maintain the same kind of lust they once naturally carried. Men approaching 50 no longer have the same quantity of hormones raging through their bodies, and women in their 40s no longer have the same gravity defying bodies. So, women in their late 30s and 40s need to take the sexual reigns in the bedroom at times, and ravish their man’s body in the way men used to ravish theirs in their 20s.

I once met a woman who ran a profile on an Internet singles, website, touting her skills at dominance. She lured her readers in with a heading, “Do you need to be paddled, powdered or pampered?” She was slammed with hundreds of enthusiastic, “yes”s from her eager, on-line suitors. Usually it is men who take the reigns and dominate in the bedroom, and the women who are typically the ones who get pampered – or perhaps in play, paddled, and... powdered, fun! But this woman promised to take the sexual lead and sexually control her lovers in ways they may have never experienced. The men were eagerly clamoring for the opportunity.

Apparently, even the most authoritative, alpha male, likes to be dominated by a woman in bed sometimes. Many men who endure stress and strain, on the job especially, or those who have high-powered positions at work, love to surrender power in the bedroom. Men don’t always want to be the dominant one, and having a nurturing, yet firm, disciplinarian woman, force him to bend at her will can be very sexy.

Some men may be too afraid to ask his girl to be dominant, but he may secretly crave it. Or he may not even realize he likes it, because he’s never tried it. But all men were little boys at one time, and for men, tapping into the time when they first began to mature, and had to surrender all authority, obligation, and command, can bring about a hyper erotic state. Their submission can actually help them relax and relieve stress. By revisiting his budding masculinity from infancy, when he wanted to be caressed, powdered and pampered, to boyhood and adolescence, when he perceived a grown woman as ever-so-mysterious, powerful, and controlling, a woman can unleash a fountain of sexual energy from her man. And with an assertive and loving hand, she can combine his inner-boy spirit, with his grown man’s body, to create supreme pleasure for him.

For many women who are naturally too passive, and submissive to be assertive, or dominant in bed, this can be a challenge. But by taking a risk, and exploring this side of herself, she can experience a new freedom too. After all, doing unto others in bed is a direct cue for what we like done to ourselves. Her man may reverse the role and allow her to experience the same tranquility of childlike, powerlessness on another occasion.

Read more about the: Power Shift:  Why A Great Catch Can't Find A Match

Through case studies as an exclusive matchmaker with Perfect Search, Melinda Maximova identifies a phenomenon that is undermining the success of many relationships. She calls this dynamic, Power Shift. Through the eyes of a matchmaker she helps women avoid several dating pitfalls and relationship syndromes and address questions of controversial topics about the sexes.

Whether you are:

• Dating a divorced man
• Already married
• Single and searching for Mr. Right
• An urban cougar
• Single mom

You will most likely be navigating the Power Shift.

A dating authority and coach, Melinda Maximova knows what it takes for intelligent, grounded and impressive women to find and keep the man who will love and respect them the way they deserve. She helps women determine who is worth fighting for and how to keep him. She has helped thousands of successful men navigate the dating scene. Now, she will help millions of women negotiate the obstacles they are encountering in their love lives to in order to find the man of their dreams. She will address topics of:

1. What Makes A Man Run For The Hills
2. What Men Want
3. Is He Worth It?
4. Are You Ready For Mr. Right?
5. Dating And The Power Shift
6. Navigating The Power Shift For The Long Haul

Power Shift: Why a Great Catch Can’t Find a Match, addresses topics such as, why men like dating younger women and why men want hot. Power Shift defines the Princess Syndrome, the difference between self-esteem and self-importance, and discusses sex, fidelity and trust. It guides readers through the Good Man Checklist, the PLEASURE Principal, the patterns of MISHAP, and the Seven “F”s For Keeping Your Man. The book illustrates the complicated topics of conflict resolution, marriage ultimatums, and prenuptial agreements, and offers specific tools to help women think like a winner, thereby attracting men who are also winners. Power Shift will help readers navigate and negotiate dating to find their perfect match, and help them determine if they are ready for Mr. Right when they find him. Through humor and matchmaker case studies, Power Shift: Why a Great Catch Can’t Find a Match provides a road map for overcoming the pitfalls of the Power Shift phenomenon to empower women in their 30s and 40s to find intimate love with the powerful man in their life.

For more information contact Melinda Maximova, matchmaker with Perfect Search 

www.theperfectsearch.com