Being single can be sad. It's lonely around the holiday's and when all of your friends are coupled up. You hate people saying "Why are you still single?" It ruins your self-esteem and you have a fear of spending the rest of your life alone. Then on the other hand the single life could be fun.
The single life could be fun because you could date whoever you want. You can flirt and be free. There is no commitment and you don't have to worry about anyone cheating on you.
With single life there are first dates. They could be fun and exciting. You are getting to know someone new for the first time. They could also be nervous you don't want to say or do the wrong thing. How the first date goes is how to determine if there will be a second date.
When going on a date with someone for the first time whom you don't know meet in a public place. It doesn't matter if you meet him online or at a bar. A stranger is someone you don't know besides having a stranger come over for the first date could be sending the wrong signal.
Don't wear clothes that are too revealing or reveal too much sexual history. You don't want to give him the wrong idea. If you like this guy you want to pursue a relationship with him. If you send the wrong signal he won't take you or a relationship with you seriously.
Have confident also on the first date and focus on him. If you follow these simple rules and it is meant to be you will be fine. Have fun and good luck.