Private investigators who specialize in infidelity investigations are well aware that the spike in lover’s trysts on or around Valentine’s Day make it one of the best times of the year to catch a cheating mate.
On Feb. 14, ABC News, WPBF.com and Action News Jax provided tips from local private investigators on how to catch a cheating husband on the most romantic day of the year.
If you suspect your husband of having an extramarital affair and you didn’t hire private investigator yesterday or pick up any signs of infidelity yourself, now is the time to be alert
There are specific signs of infidelity that show up several days after Valentine’s Day, which can confirm the existence of an affair , and provide tangible proof that your husband is cheating on you.
PHOTOS: Valentine’s Day Gifts your Cheating Husband May Have Bought His Mistress
PHOTOS: Flowers a Cheating Husband May Give His Mistress for Valentine’s Day
Signs of Infidelity that Appear AFTER Valentine’s Day
Keep your eyes open for one or more of the 7 signs below:
1. A hidden gift discovered before Valentine’s Day that has disappeared, but wasn’t given to you.
2. Receipts for the purchase of 2 identical gifts. (If he bought 2 heart-shaped diamond pendants and you got one, who did he give the other one to?)
3. Receipts or credit card statements for candy, flowers, jewelry, lingerie you didn’t personally receive. (Who got $175 worth of lingerie from Victoria’s Secret?) See Valentine’s Day Flowers Will Expose Many Cheating Husbands on Valentine’s Day
4. Sales receipts, charge slips or credit card statements for gifts that don’t correspond with the gift he gave you. (If you got flowers and candy, for Valentine’s Day, who did he give jewelry to? See Mistresses, Not Wives, Got the Most Expensive Valentine’s Day Gifts Yesterday
5. A thank you note, text message or e-mail to your husband from another woman for the Valentine’s Day gift he gave her
6. Restaurant receipts or charge slips dated February 13th,14th, or 15th showing meals for two that didn’t include you.
7. Credit card receipts for a hotel stay dated the day before, the day after, or on Valentine’s Day. (Does the time stamp correspond with the time your husband was nowhere to be found, and unreachable by phone? ) See 79% of Cheating Husbands Will See Their Mistresses on Mistress Day
PHOTOS: Valentine’s Day Gifts your Cheating Husband May Have Bought His Mistress
PHOTOS: Flowers a Cheating Husband May Give His Mistress for Valentine’s Day
Don’t Confront Your Cheating Husband without Additional Proof
Don’t confront your husband about cheating on you solely on the basis of the 7 telltale signs above. You need to get additional proof. See What Should I Do If I Think He’s cheating on Me? It’s important to build a solid case before confronting your husband so you will not be thrown off base by the inevitable lies the he will tell. See How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair and 9 Reasons a Cheater Will Lie About His Affair
See also Best Advice on Using Online Services to Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate
In order to build an airtight case against the cheater, you need to be armed with additional proof. But knowing what to look for is the key. A good infidelity book can help. See The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2013
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs covers practically every known sign of infidelity -- including the subtle signs most women usually overlook. The e-book version of Is He Cheating on You? comes with a bonus section containing questionnaires, special infidelity reports and affair recovery information for both the cheating husband and the betrayed wife. It can be ordered from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html
You should also gather additional information about the affair itself, as well as about the woman your husband is cheating with. See Will He Leave You for His Mistress? - 5 Clues That He Will This will help you make an intelligent decision on how best to deal with your husband’s affair. See When to Give Cheater a Second Chance and Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates
See also 17 Subtle Signs That Your Marriage or Relationship is About to End and 40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped
There’s no one size fits all solution when it comes to dealing with infidelity. Not every affair can be handled in the same way. A number of factors need to be taken into account. See Should You Take a Cheater Back? – How to Decide
For more practical, immediately usable information about cheating husbands, signs of infidelity, or dealing with extramarital affairs, see the list below or visit www.NationalInfidelity.com
NOTE: This article is part of the 10th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign.
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*** © copyright 2013 Ruth Houston / All Rights Reserved.
Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. Ruth also writes the Celebrity Infidelity column (www.CelebrityInfidelity.com) and the National Infidelity column (www.NationalInfidelity.com) for Examiner.com. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have Ruth speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com
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For more practical, immediately usable information about cheating husbands, signs of infidelity, or dealing with extramarital affairs, see the list below or visit www.NationalInfidelity.com
Mistresses, Not Wives, Got the Most Expensive Valentine’s Day Gifts Yesterday
Valentine’s Day Flowers Will Expose Many Cheating Husbands on Valentine’s Day
79% of Cheating Husbands Will See Their Mistresses on Mistress Day
5 Things about Why So Many Cheaters Don’t Get Caught
Why the Wife is STILL the Last to Know
12 Valid Reasons to Snoop if You Suspect Your Mate May Be Cheating on You
40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped
17 Subtle Signs That Your Marriage or Relationship is About to End
Why You Shouldn’t Rely on the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity and What to Do Instead
Best Advice on Using Online Services to Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate
Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates
The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2013
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)
9 Reasons a Cheater Will Lie About His Affair
How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair
Should You Take a Cheater Back? – How to Decide
When to Give Cheater a Second Chance
5 Things about Rebuilding Your Relationship in the Aftermath of His Affair
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