Signs of infidelity that can show up AFTER Valentine’s Day

There are several signs of infidelity that will typically show up AFTER Valentine’s Day, if your spouse or significant other is cheating on you.

As the final phase of my 9th annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign, listed below are some of the post-Valentine’s Day signs of infidelity you should be alert for, if you suspect infidelity and are trying to confirm the existence of an affair, or get proof that you have a cheating mate. See The 9th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign

A hidden gift youdiscovered before Valentine’s Day that you thought was yours, but has now disappeared, and wasn’t given to you. (Who was it given to?)
Receipts for the purchase of 2 identical gifts. (If he bought 2 heart-shaped diamond pendants and you got one, who’d he give the other one to?)
Receipts or credit card statements for candy, flowers, jewelry, lingerie you didn’t personally receive. (Who got $175 worth of lingerie from Victoria’s Secret?)
Sales receipts, charge slips or credit card statements for gifts that don’t correspond with the gift he gave you. (If you got flowers and candy, who did he give the jewelry to?) PHOTOS: Gifts He Probably Gave His Mistress for Valentine’s Day Yesterday – pictures
A thank you note, e-mail, or text message to or from your spouse for a Valentine’s Day gift you know nothing about. (If it was an innocent gift to workmate or family member, it would have been mentioned to you)
Gifts of a personal nature, like jewelry or lingerie, that suddenly appear after Valentine’s Day, which she attempts to pass off as items she purchased for herself. ( Ask to see the sales receipt for that bracelet she’s suddenly started wearing every day.)
Restaurant receipts or charge slips dated February 13th,14th,15th showing meals for two at a fancy restaurant that didn’t include you. (Check the time stamp on the receipt to confirm whether it was dinner or lunch.)
Credit card receipts for a hotel stay dated the day before, the day after, or the day of Valentine’s Day. (Does the time stamp correspond with the time your spouse or significant other was missing in action and unreachable by phone?)
Phone bills or cell phone logs showing suspicious calls made showing suspicious calls made very early in the morning, very late in the evening, or at lunchtime on Valentine’s Day.

Don’t Confront the Cheater without Additional Proof

Never confront a cheating spouse or significant other solely on the basis of any telltale signs of infidelity you may find on, or around Valentine’s Day.

You need to build an airtight case, which means getting additional proof.

Signs of infidelity never appear in isolation. If your mate is really cheating, there will ALWAYS be multiple signs of infidelity just waiting to be found. See 5 Things about Signs of Infidelity

Knowing what to look for is the key.

A good infidelity reference can be a reliable, yet affordable source of help.

All of the signs of infidelity mentioned above, and many more, can be found in the popular infidelity reference book, entitled Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, which lists practically every known sign of including the subtle signs people usually overlook. See 17 Subtle Signs That Your Marriage or Relationship is About to End and 40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped.

The chapter on Gifts contains 19 telltale signs.
The chapter on Physical Evidence contains 32 telltale signs.
The chapter on Absences contains 39 telltale signs.
The chapter on Financial Affairs contains 52 telltale signs.
The chapter on Accidental Slip-Ups or Disclosures contains 57 telltale signs.

Meanwhile, for more practical, immediately-usable information on all aspects of infidelity from an internationally-recognized infidelity expert who has been researching infidelity for over 18 years, visit www.NationalInfidelity.com or see the list of articles below.
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Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. Ruth also writes the Celebrity Infidelity column (www.CelebrityInfidelity.com) and National Infidelity column (www.NationalInfidelity.com) for Examiner.com. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029, or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

MORE HELPFUL INFIDELITY ARTICLES

For practical, immediately-usable information on all aspects of infidelity from an internationally-recognized infidelity expert who has been researching infidelity for over 18 years, visit www.NationalInfidelity.com or see the list of articles below.

How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair

9 Reasons a Cheater Will Lie About His Affair

5 Things about Why So Many Cheaters Don’t Get Caught

40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped

17 Subtle Signs That Your Marriage or Relationship is About to End

5 Things about Signs of Infidelity

The Top 10 Signs of Infidelity – and Why You Can’t Rely on These Telltale Signs

12 Valid Reasons to Snoop if You Suspect Your Mate May Be Cheating on You

Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs (soft cover book)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2012

Online Resources to Help You Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate