So, it’s been years or maybe even months in your relationship and things are starting to become somewhat of a routine in the bedroom area. It could be becoming—do I dare say it—even a bit boring. Are you doing missionary, every single time? Is there no spark or intrigue left when you touch each other, explore each other’s bodies? Well, here are five simple ways you can spice things up in your sex life.
First and foremost, do your homework. Google is now your best friend. Look up new and creative positions to try. Watch an erotic movie together. Take the time to read an erotic novel where you can get new ideas, and also it doesn’t hurt that in the process you are getting your engines revved and ready to go.
Play dress up.
No, I don’t mean dress up in a princess outfit like when you were a kid, but dress up as in change not only your clothes but your personality. Men aren’t usually monogamous by nature, so give them variety they can work with. One night you are the helpless virginal milk maid who cannot find her way back to the village, the next night you can be an amazon warrior princess who conquers men every night of the week. It’s all about having a little bit of imagination. And imagination can go a long way.
Find new places to have sex.
Forget about the bed. In fact, completely ditch the bed. Simply start, by exploring your own house. Start with the kitchen, where if you have a sturdy table don’t be afraid to use it. Then migrate to the bathroom, where there is an irresistible bathroom sink. Then migrate to the car or even the garage. If you’re feeling especially naughty, try using the backyard. Having sex outside of the house, can add a sense of exhilaration. Going on a long vacation, make sure you join the mile high club. Going camping, well no one will hear you scream.
Don’t be afraid to shake what your momma gave ya.
Nothing is sexier to a man, then a woman who is confident in her own skin; and who are some of the most confident women by nature, strippers of course. So if you really want to drive your man over the top and create an atmosphere for some really sizzling sex, then treat your man to sexy strip tease, or better yet a sexy strip tease and lap dance. Trust me, he will thank you later.