Did your husband have an affair and now you are wondering if you can ever go back to having the sex life with him that you once had? Learning how to forgive your husband after he has had an affair is something that is very difficult to do. Whether he had a physical affair or an emotional affair, he still betrayed your trust. It is understandable that you are a little iffy about “pouring on the heat” in bed, because you do not want your husband to revert to that lifestyle again. There are a couple of things that you are going to need to do if you want things to be hot and steamy in the bedroom again.
Get Your Confidence Back
The fact that your husband cheated on you has affected your self-confidence whether you feel like it has or not. He made your feel like you were not good enough for him and he had to find someone else to fulfill his guilty pleasures.
If you hope to be able to get the sex life back that you once had with your husband, then the first thing you are going to have to do is work on rebuilding your confidence. There are plenty of self-help books on Amazon.com that will teach you how to gain your confidence back, or if you find yourself really struggling, individual counseling may be needed.
Make Him Want You
One of the main things you are probably worried about is that if you act like a porn star in bed he will want to go back to sexting other women or watching porn, right? If so, then the thing you need to do is make him want you instead of those other women.
There are a few great ways to make your husband want you instead of other women. One of the best that has come along recently is a course by relationship expert Michael Fiore called Text the Romance Back. The program is based on sending your husband simple little text messages that make him want you, crave you, and count down the seconds until he is holding you in his arms. There are facts about the male psychology that make these text messages so effective. To find out more about this program visit Michael Fiore’s website textmessageflirt.com.
You can go back to being the woman who rocks his world in bed if you work on your self-confidence and making him want you instead of other women. If you have truly forgiven him, then there is no reason things cannot go back to the way they were before he had an affair. Look into some self-help books and definitely check out Michael Fiore’s course so that you will be able to make your husband want you again. Your sex life can go back to the way it was before he had an affair if you are willing to put a little bit of work into it.