In the column, “Good vibrations: the part of a woman’s body that never ages,” I wrote about the clitoris, a gem whose shine and sparkle is often not fully appreciated, figuratively and literally. Hardly visible in most women and most deliciously sensitive to touch, its purpose and function is simple: divine pleasure. Every woman and her faithful partner would be foolish not to clamor for more of that in a Modern Love world.
But what if your beloved hasn’t yet mastered the, “the gentle art of clitoral persuasion"? If you are wondering how to increase your pleasure in a way that enhances and includes a deeper connection, there are resources available to do so. Modern Love is a fan of the San Francisco Tantric Examiner, Luminessa; she is an expert on ecstatic sensuality and has been teaching about divine sexuality for over 15 years. In her column,'The ecstatic yoni massage,' she introduces some basic techniques for sensual massage of the ‘yoni.’ (For the unfamiliar, yoni is tantric for sacred space, and refers to a woman’s genitals.) Luminessa explains one purpose of this practice. "You can bring your partner to orgasm or not, but the one cardinal rule is to only give her what she wants for as long as she wants it in the way she likes it." Amen to that.
For a tasteful, fun and informative introduction on how to give a woman a genital massage, this video, from www.erotic-massage-guide.com is an excellent start. Don’t worry, men – I promise to share similar resources that focus on your specific love handles, but for now, her pleasure comes first (no pun intended of course, as Modern Love means that quite literally).
Good vibrations: the part of a woman's body that never ages
Love secrets to create a natural high, by Rita Watson
What is tantric massage?, by Luminessa
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Great article and a wonderful and tastefully done video.
Tinamarie, this is so well done! The art work is terrific. Totally agree with Cheryl. Thanks so much. / R
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