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Sandra Bullock, infidelity survivor, one year later at the 2011 Oscars

At the 2010 Academy Awards, Oscar winner Sandra Bullock was the happily married wife of Jesse James, and the beloved stepmother of Jesse’s three children from his two previous marriages. 

She and Jesse were in the midst of secretly adopting a baby boy.

A year later, presenting the Oscar for Best Actor at the 2011 Academy Awards, Sandra Bullock is a very different person from the woman she was a year ago.

Now Sandra is a divorced woman, a single parent, and an infidelity survivor who is a  of a newly 1 year old boy, an infidelity survivor , and an inspiration to other infidelity victims and betrayed wives. See  Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates

Sandra Bullock has come a long way in a year’s time.

Short-Lived Joy Over Winning an Oscar

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Last year, Sandra Bullock’s  joy over winning an Oscarfor Best Actress for her performance in The Blind Side was short-lived.

Less than two weeks later Sandra found herself immersed in a major scandal.

Michelle Bombshell McGee announced that while Sandra was away filming “The Blind Side” which won her an Oscar, she and Sandra’s husband Jesse James had been carrying on an affair which lasted for 11 months.

In the weeks that followed, Sandra found out that Jesse had cheated on her with at least two other women, a well.

Her whole world, as she knew it came crashing down. 

Jesse went into rehab for sex addiction, and Sandra dropped out of sight.

A Triumphant Reappearance

Then, in April, Sandra emerged triumphantly with an announcement in People magazine  that she was divorcing Jesse James, and that as a single parent, she would be finalizing the adoption an African-American baby boy, Louis Bardo Bullock.    See  Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy 

Sandra and Jesse had begun little Louis’ adoption together 4 years ago, and had finally received 3 month old baby Louis in January.  They had planned to announce his adoption after the after the Academy Awards were over,  but before than happened, disaster struck.   

Sandra left California, and moved to Austin,Texas, where she already owned a home, and had several business interests, including  a  restaurant.  

After a tearful public apology on  ABC’s Nightline,  Jesse bought a home in Austin, near Sandra Bullock, pulled up stakes,  and relocated there with his children so they could all be close to Sandra, whom they dearly loved.  Jesse owns a custom–car business in Austin, Texas, Austin Speed Shop.   See  Will Jesse James’ Nightline Interview Convince Sandra Bullock to Take Him Back?

Jesse had hoped that he and Sandra would reconcile, and did everything in his power to win her back.  See  Jesse James is on a Mission to Win Sandra Bullock BackSandra’s love for Jesse was deep, but the hurt he caused her was even deeper.  Sandra  was unable to bring herself to give Jesse a second  chance.  Their divorce was finalized in June 2010.  See  Will the Finalized Divorce of Sandra Bullock and Jesse James Mark the End or a New Beginning?

Jesse Quickly Moved On with His Life

When it became clear to Jesse that there would be no second chance with the woman he called “the love of his life”, he quickly moved on. 

Late last summer Jesse began dating tattoo artist and LA Ink star Kat von D.  See Has Jesse James Replaced Sandra Bullock with Kat Von D?   As of last month, Jesse and Kat are officially engaged.    See  UPDATE: Jesse James - Kat von D Engagement, Wedding Plans, Sandra Bullock, more

Last week Jesse closed a deal with Simon & Schuster to write a tell-all book which will hit the stands later this year.  He supposedly will reveal intimate details about his marriage to Sandra Bullock.    See  Jesse James to Further Embarrass Sandra Bullock by Writing a Tell-All Book  

Sandra has Moved on, Too

Meanwhile Sandra Bullock has totally devoted herself to her son, little Louis, who is now one year old.  She refers to Louis as the “new man” in her life. 

In an interview at the Academy Awards, Sandra spoke of her life as a single mom:  "It's made me a better person. I'm more patient and accommodating. I really appreciate where I am."

But Sandra is still very close to Jesse’s children, both physically and emotionally.  They continue to be a part of each other’s lives.

According to Sandra’s friends, she is ready to share her life again, with a special man.  Sandra was recently linked to Ryan Reynolds after his split from Scarlett Johansson.  But she says there’s nothing between them; she insists that they are just good friends.   See  No Truth to the Rumors about Sandra Bullock, Ryan Reynolds, Scarlett Johansson 

A year after the 2010 Academy Awards, Sandra bullock has successfully picked up the pieces of her  shattered life and moved on. 

In the process, she has become a role model for other women who are victims of infidelity and are going through a divorce.

What a difference a year has made for Sandra Bullock.

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*** © copyright 2011 Ruth Houston /  All Rights Reserved.

Ruth Houston   isa New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder ofwww.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of   Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs,  and publishes the   Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail  InfidelityExpert@gmail.com  

For more about Sandra Bullock  or Jesse James,  see the articles below or visit www.CelebrityInfidelity.com


Jesse James is on a Mission to Win Sandra Bullock Back

Jesse James to Further Embarrass Sandra Bullock by Writing a Tell-All Book  

Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates

Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy

Will Jesse James’ Nightline Interview Convince Sandra Bullock to Take Him Back?

Has Jesse James Replaced Sandra Bullock with Kat Von D?

UPDATE: Jesse James - Kat von D Engagement, Wedding Plans, Sandra Bullock, more

No Truth to the Rumors about Sandra Bullock, Ryan Reynolds, Scarlett Johansson

Will the Finalized Divorce of Sandra Bullock and Jesse James Mark the End or a New Beginning?

Could Your Cheating Husband or Boyfriend be a Sex Addict Like Tiger Woods or Jesse James?

For other articles about Celebrity Infidelity, visit www.CelebrityInfidelity.com   

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Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert, who is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and author of Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs. Ruth blogs at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot...

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