This spell is for a case where you are willing to admit your own fault in a matter whether a simple miscommunication or a dramatic confrontation. You must accept that you cannot change another person but you can change yourself. It may be for a lover who has left you.
- one white candle
- one blue candle
- one pink candle
Anoint each with love potion. Carve the name of yourself and the person you wish to reconcile with on the blue candle. Invoke Cerridwen and Pan.
Light the white candle. "Cerridwen, mother, blessed be I light this white candle to remove hostility Light the blue candle. Mother and father, blessed be bring between _______ and I love and tranquility;By the love Goddesses let him remember and love me..."
Light the pink candle. "Pan and Eros, blessed be If there is still love between us, let it be for the good of all and the harm of none, as I will, so mote it be!"
Let candles burn down. Act in accord. Call the person or somehow indicate you have lowered your hostility and long for his/her return. Personalize the chant to make it right for you.
Breaking up an argument spell To be done after an argument has occurred between you and a loved one.
Draw two figures on separate sheets of paper-one representing you and the other representing the other person. Personalize the figures as needed (e.g.. Draw yellow on the head for blond hair, draw glasses , etc.) Place an unbroken bay leaf on one figure and lay the other figure face-down on top, creating a sandwich type thing.
Say: "Let the bay leaf take the energy and anger that is between us."
Separate the figures. Pick up the bay leaf and crumple it in the palm of your hand. While doing so, say: " As this leaf is broken and blown away, Let the anger contained within also break and blow away."
Place the figures again on top of each other and say, "Now there is no anger between us." Blow the leaf to the wind. Wrap the figures up with a pink ribbon and put in safe place.
In love and light,