One of the greatest worries couples in long distance relationships have is that their partner will cheat on them. For women, the way to prevent their partner from cheating is simpler than they think. Although many women think that what their man does is out of their control, they actually have more influence than they are aware of. The following techniques will prevent men in long distance relationships from wandering astray.
1. Compliment him. Men gravitate towards people who give them confidence and make them feel desirable. When you see him on Skype, tell him how good he looks or how much you want him at that moment. By telling your man that he's hot, it reassures him and absolves any insecurities he may foster about himself.
2. Make the effort to get to know his friends. If his friends know and like you, they will be more likely to look out for you. When your man and his friends are out at the Clubhouse and another woman creeps in trying to steal your man, his friends will discourage him from doing anything he may regret and they may even alert you about the other woman.
3. Reconnect on a very regular basis by asking him questions about his day. If a man feels like he cannot talk to his partner about something, he will seek out someone with whom he can share his thoughts and feelings. This other person may be a woman at work or a lady at Cafe Trieste. The interaction may start out in an innocent way, but soon he will choose to talk to the other woman more than you if he feels that she listens to him more than you do or they connect on a deeper level than he does with you.
4. Use the background space on his phone to your advantage. When you are together, have him take a sexy picture of you with his cell phone and put it as his background picture. Everytime he makes a call or sends a text, he is reminded of how much you mean to him. By staying on his mind, he will be much less likely to stray.
Men need their significant others to boost their confidence, desire them, and connect to them on a deep level. By making the effort to stay on your man's mind and make him feel attractive, you will prevent him from seeking attention elsewhere.
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