Having a healthy relationship with your husband, wife or life partner has many benefits to a longer healthier life for both people involved in the relationship.
People who enjoy the company of a life partner also enjoy the benefits of a happier life ‘if’ the two get along well together. Long-term commitments pledging monogamy, children, grandchildren, stability and peace of mind are all thoughts that come to mind when thinking of married life and having someone to grow old with.
If you are thinking about marriage a life-long commitment with one person you need to talk over all your concerns with the other person involved. Developing good communication before marriage is a key to a lasting marriage. Opposites attract but like minded individuals get along very well.
Ask questions and seek answers to all before tying the knot. There are many questions that need answering before taking the leap into the world of marriage and responsibility.
The two biggest deal breakers are money and sex. Financial problems and sexual problems both rank at the top reasons for divorce.
Do you want children?
If she wants three children and you don’t want any, she might not be the right choice for you. If he wants a stay at home wife and mother and she wants a career and no children maybe he’s not the right choice for marriage material for her.
Do you want to work?
Who is going to be the bread winner of the family?
Do you want to go to collage?
Want a career?
Where do you want to live?
By her parents or his? In the state you marry or in another?
Can she have girls night out? Go shopping or socializing? Can he have poker night with the boys or go to the bar with his friends?
These are just a few of the questions that need to be answered before entering into the bonds of marriage that tie two people together until death due them part.