Proponents of the New Perspectives approach to domestic violence have long been aware of the sexist, and otherwise biased nature of what has become the "traditional" public response to domestic violence. To the detriment of the public in general, governments at all levels, from federal to local, have been forced to cooperate with political activist groups whose ultimate objectives have little or nothing to do with aiding couples and families where intimate parter abuse is a problem.
Utilizing a fabricated scenario that only addresses the perceived political nature of the issue from a radical feminist standpoint, these political activist groups have managed in the past several decades to establish themselves as "experts" in the field, when nothing could be further from the truth. Time and again, the feminist scenario of domestic violence fails to stand up to scrutiny, since there was never any substance behind the notion that all domestic violence is politically motivated and a political/governmental solution is by any means viable.
One such political activist organization is the Duluth, MN based Praxis International, which states clearly on the entry page of its website: "We work with local, statewide, and national reform initiatives to bridge the gap between what people need and what institutions provide. Since 1996, we have worked with advocacy organizations, intervention agencies, and inter-agency collaborations to create a clear and cooperative agenda for social change in their communities." It is entirely government-funded, though their IRS 990 forms from 2005, 2006, and 2007 note a decrease in funding from nearly $3 million to $2 million per year. They share a building in downtown Duluth with a soup kitchen, a clothing bank, and other DV-related and social service orgs.
A good portion of their website is devoted to activism, community organizing, and many things which point to their mission of elevating the social status of one group of people over another. Any mention of intimate partner abuse is based on reinforcing their outdated, extreme views in such a way as to make them seem plausible; and an attractive means of "eliminating violence in the lives of women and children." Nowhere on the site is anything that suggests that their knowledge of "what people need" has come from anything but their arrogant presumption.
Further evidence of their intentions is to be found here:
Praxis was organized in 1996 by activists in the battered women's movement to work with other social change activists seeking to end violence against women. Praxis helps advocacy organizations and inter-agency collaborations analyze how institutions of social control can be challenged to adopt practices and philosophical approaches that promote autonomy, integrity and safety for women and their children. In 1997, we developed a method of analyzing criminal justice and human service agency responses to women who are abused by their partners. This analysis of institutional practices is called an ethnography, or audit.
I wouldn't have known anything about this org but for an e-mail I got from Marc Angelucci, of NCFM. The e-mail was about the outrage felt by participants at the recent Washington State Domestic Violence Coalition (WSDVC) annual conference, where Amanda McCormick, (left) an employee of Praxis said with a grin, "I think I know a lot of men who deserve to be beaten," during her keynote address.
The e-mail he sent to the org looking for an explanation was answered by Janice Wick, Associate Director of Praxis, who said: "Amanda McCormick is an employee of Praxis International but was not representing Praxis at the Washington conference. As I was not present, I can not speak to your concerns. I would not want to make a judgment based on a sentence that may or may not have been taken out of context. I will forward your email to Amanda and she will respond to you directly."
While Marc awaits a response from Amanda herself, I decided to do a little sleuthing. What I found was an eye-opener. Mccormick's statement was really not of out character for the org, which has done a lot to encourage the belief that women do not abuse, should always be perceived as victims, and should be treated differently by courts and law enforcement. What McCormick was doing, in fact, was making a statement of policy for Praxis International. Janice Wick should have been aware of this policy, so it is surprising she wasn't prepared to stand by her girl. Or maybe it shouldn't be surprising, as Amanda is apparently white and middle-class, and Praxis apparently doesn't like them much more than they like men. So Amanda gets thrown under the bus.
Consider the following:
At a Crossroads:Developing a Prosecution Response to Battered Women Who Fight Back
(Manual) Item #13 -- $30
The Crossroads Program is a program intended for victims of ongoing domestic abuse who are charged with criminal offenses against their partners. It provides participants an opportunity to address violence within the larger context of their victimization. It holds the participants accountable without invoking the full ramifications of the criminal court process.
Making Social Change: Reflections on Individual and Institutional Advocacy with Women Arrested for Domestic Violence -- By Martha McMahon and Ellen Pence.
Violence Against Women, Vol 9, No. 1, January 2003
Excerpt 1
A strong notion of the social or public good inspired the original changes in the Criminal Justice system to better protect women from violence. Using the same argument that court interventions should serve the public good, women's advocates in Duluth encourage prosecutors to defer cases where women have used violence but were clearly not battering their partners. They argued that public safety is not enhanced by pursuing a prosecution simply because it is technically possible. This, advocates point out, is not the spirit or intent of the legal traditions granting prosecutors broad authority to determine how to charge and prosecute in the interest of justice and the public good. Is there a public interest, advocates ask, in prosecuting women who are being beaten, refuse to "take it," and hit back? Given the gendered nature of violence, should prosecutors not take into account the difference in risks to such a woman and to her partner
Excerpt 2
Finally, women arrested for domestic violence require an aggressive advocacy program to take up the cause of women who fight back. Today, increasing numbers of advocacy programs are using gender-neutral language to describe their services. When battered women are arrested, advocates are told they cannot advocate for these women because they are not victims but the offenders. In a culture where dominant understandings of equity and fairness rely on the denial of the reality of differences, the strategies we advocate will initially be perceived as unfair or as expressing a double standard. Women's advocates will need to become sophisticated and adept at explaining the gendered nature of violence and the meaning of pursuing equality in social contexts where people are clearly not equal in power and social resources
But even the best arguments will be countered by accusations of reverse sexism. While it is important not to ignore perceptions of unfairness, it is equally important not to capitulate to reactionary forces resisting our goal to provide a community response that protects women from ongoing abuse. Women who fight back become increasingly vulnerable to their abusers if the advocacy community does not recognize their actions as legitimate responses to being beaten. The idealized image of the perfect victim and the naïve notion that there is a healthy or proper way of being abused makes women who fight back, women who are prostituted, women who have become addicted to drugs or alcohol, and women who are homeless more vulnerable to both the abuser and the institutions they turn to for help.
The leadership in women’s advocacy programs that is white, middle-class, and oriented toward a predominantly westernized view of social relationships can learn much from the struggles of marginalized groups and third world women—whose demands for equity are falsely represented as demands for special privileges or cultural exceptions.
As demonstrated in these struggles, it is important to resist seeing advocacy for women who use violence as an issue of bias or special treatment. It should be remembered that much of the battered women’s movement’s work has been to challenge the social sanctioning of male violence in the private sphere and to end the protections afforded such male privilege by the criminal justice system and other institutions. Every effort we have made has met with resistance and claims that we seek to establish a double standard. We have consistently fought against such efforts to obscure women’s realities. Battered women who use violence to protect themselves from brutal partners deserve no less from us.
Much more of the same nonsense is to be found at the link. As to be expected, there are some weird acrobatics with words in an attempt to make it all seem gender-neutral. However, the upshot of it all is this: when women use violence it should not be considered as battery.
In other words: men deserve to be beaten.
Some facts about WSDVC's "DV University"
DV University starts with an all-campus assembly where we'll take a hard look at our methods and our goals. Visiting faculty Amanda McCormick of Praxis International will speak about their cutting-edge research into the most effective ways to work with survivors, improve as advocates, and change how the public thinks about domestic violence. The Praxis approach offers both practical ideas to reinvigorate your daily work and a large scale change in perspective that will renew your hope in a world without violence.
Supporters of this violence promotion festival included:
• Washington State Department of Social and Health Services, Children’s Administration, Division of Program and Policy
• Washington State Department of Commerce, Office of Crime Victims Advocacy
• U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families
• U.S. Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women
In collaboration with:
HHS Office on Women’s Health – Region 10

Comments
Thank you, Trudy. It's interesting that Praxis would actually say Amanda McCormick was not representing Praxis at the Washington conference when in fact the online conference schedule states: "Visiting faculty Amanda McCormick of Praxis International will speak about their cutting-edge research into the most effective ways to work with survivors, improve as advocates, and change how the public thinks about domestic violence. The Praxis approach offers..." (this site doesn't allow me to post the link, but it's at the Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence website).
The link's up there -- no worries!
what sloppy reporting! Biased Much?? That Palin kool-aid must taste good.
It's obvious you don't know what Praxis is really about. They DO NOT say or believe that women cannot commit domestic violence. Luckily the only people who read the Examiner are weirdo UFO buffs-myself included.
Thank you Trudy for your work. The domestic violence industry has consistently portrayed men as violent and marginalized male victims as unimportant.
The obvious effect of this social programming is to diminish the seriousness of violence against men.
"They DO NOT say or believe that women cannot commit domestic violence."
Ok, but their representative says alot of men "deserve" to be beaten up. That, combined with all the biased info on their webiste that Trudy exposed, makes it clear that they are extremeley sexist and biased in their advocacy, and I'm very happy that's being exposed.
"Luckily the only people who read the Examiner are weirdo UFO buffs-myself included."
Ahh, wishful thinking. People *do* read the examiner, increasingly so, and I'm sending this to thousands of people (it's already on severak good blogs like Dr. Helen's), and it picks up alot of term-based internet hits. So yeah, it's good exposure and little by little we'll keep exposing the lies and hate.
As a woman,the most disturbing thing I found about this article is that there are still women in this world who have such a need for approval from any man that they will shoot down other women and womens organizations whenever they get the chance. Shame on you Trudy. As for Marc and Denis, a real man would applaud the efforts of ending the oppression of whole groups of people rather than try their darnedest to turn the clock back on progress. Shame on you boys, too.
Well Dennis, you give nothing of substance at all except personal put downs. But I'll respond anyway.
"As a woman,the most disturbing thing I found about this article is that there are still women in this world who have such a need for approval from any man that they will shoot down other women and womens organizations whenever they get the chance. Shame on you Trudy."
So Trudy is "putting down" other women by exposing an organization that appears to advocate violence and double standards, and by telling the truth about the dynamics of domestic violence that virtually all empirical research shows? I think it's you who should be ashamed, Dennise.
" As for Marc and Denis, a real man would applaud the efforts of ending the oppression of whole groups of people rather than try their darnedest to turn the clock back on progress. Shame on you boys, too."
No, a "real woman" would not defend ideologues that advocate violence and hypocrisy and that lie. Shame on YOU, Dennise.
Denise, what is really all that hard to follow here? This isn't about women attacking women or men attacking women. This imbecile jokes -- AT AN ANTI-DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CONFERENCE, NO LESS -- about beating up men. This is like a man standing up at the same conference and telling wife-beater jokes and expecting to get big laughs. Why the bias against the 50% of victims who happen to have been born male, Denise?
@Denise: The biggest mistake the general public makes when considering these orgs is thinking they are "women's groups," when in fact they are not. They are political action organizations no different from Earth First! or MoveOn. I am even getting e-mails from readers likening Praxis to Acorn.
If in fact, this org had any interest in the welfare of women, they would not force them out of their homes, destroy their marriages and livelihoods, and damage their children. That is what happens to women who are unfortunate enough to buy into the current shelter/divorce scenario. Don't you think after all this time there would be a better solution?
BTW - THX Marc & Brian!
"what sloppy reporting! Biased Much?? "
Sloppy commenting much?? Fact-free snark doesn't convince anyone, Elle.
Trudy;
Where can we find out more about the "New Perspectives approach to domestic violence"? Is there a central organization or is it an identifiable collection of scientists, lawyers,survivors of domestic abuse, and survivors of domestic abuse intervention programs?
Walbridge, I'm sure Trudy can answer but I'd like to suggest the National Family Violence Legislative Resource Center. Just google search their name.
"I think I know a lot of men who deserve to be beaten," yet we always here, "there is NEVER an excuse to hit a woman?
Just before founding Shattered Men, I use to post on a "De Ja news" board and when I posted on a domestic violence board about our need to at some point question what role the victim played in domestic violence, a woman who said she was the director of a domestic violence shelter said we must never do that as it is blaming the victim. I replied that there is seldom a conflict between two adults where both do not add to it. Oddly enough, when someone posted about a man being beating a few weeks later this same woman asked...."what did he do to deserve the beating?"
Without double standards , the domestic violence industry could not exist.
A news article on KCTV News in Kansas City stated a man was convicted of assault by a jury. However, the report also states that this man "got into a fight with his wife. After he threatened to leave her and she doused his clothes with gasoline," He then defended himself against her by pushing and shoving her. Wilson said she fell against a cabinet and got cut.
I suppose he should have waited until she lit a match before defending himself?
I have seen hundreds of situations in which men have been arrested for defending themselves. Bottom line...due to the double standards imposed by the Violence Against Women Act, we have a right to defend our self against personal attack as long as we are not a man and the assailant is a woman!
kctv5.com/news/21118999/detail.html
Who do you think made this statement?
It may surprise you when you find out.
"In my house, being raised with a sister and three brothers, there
was an absolute it was a nuclear sanction, if under any
circumstances, for any reason, no matter how justified, even self-
defense if you ever touched your sister, not figuratively,
literally. My sister, who is my best friend, my campaign manager, my
confidante, grew up with absolute impunity in our household. And I
have the bruises to prove it. I mean that sincerely. I am not
exaggerating when I say that."
"And I have the bruises to prove it."
The author? None other then Senator Joe Biden...the originator of
the Violence Against Women Act. Umm wouldn't ya think he would
know better then most that women can be violent too???
shatterdmen.com/VAWA%20too.htm
Marc A. says: this site doesn't allow me to post the link
Marc, I have found that we can post the link as long as we do not include the h t t p : (with spaces closed) Most browsers will accept a copy and paste without that so if you say copy and paste shatterdmen.com/VAWA%20too.htm into your address bar, it will take you to the page where Joe Biden made the statment below. I do think it is important to be able to give our sources.
Elle says: They DO NOT say or believe that women cannot commit domestic violence.
Elle, the National Organization of Women do not say that either but it is clear that they do say that 95% of abuse victims are women and that half of the 5% of the male victims are abused by other men. Often we can learn more by what is NOT said then what is said. It is very clean to tens of thousands of men that there is NO help for them if they are beaten by a woman! I am sure that most of us posting here can tell you about dozens of men who have been arrested for being assulted...much like the man in Kansas City I just posted about.
Elle...what do you think would have happend if he threw gasoline on his wife?
Check out the VAWA and ask...why are half the victims of domestic violence totally ignored? Radical feminist wrote the VAWA! Would not this be like asking the klu klux klan to write laws concerning racial relations?