I spent 30 minutes telling her exactly what she needs to do. Details of what will work and how easy it is to correct her behavior. All I hear are excuses, reasons and blame. She is defensive in all her actions and motionless in her efforts to change. She will never listen, it is a though she just shuts me out, closes her mind and soul to my voice. Closing down, withdrawing, and disappearing into an ever sealed ball of darkness. She has slowly fading from me, family, society and the world. Why won’t she listen to me? What is wrong with her? She is destroying our family and herself! I feel a though life is over and I wish it all would end.
She feels as though life is over and she wishes it all would end. I am destroying our family and myself. What is wrong with me? Why won’t I listen to her? I have slowly faded from her, my family, society and the world. I've closed up, shut down and curled into an ever sealed ball of darkness. I will never listen to her, I just shut her out, close my mind and soul to her voice. I never listen! I am defensive in all my actions and motionless in my efforts to change. I am full of excuses, reasons and blame! I use none of my own details of what will work to easily correct my own behavior. I spend 0 minutes working on myself and what needs to change in my own life.
Wake Up and Listen to myself and others!
By Scott Simpson
Certified Performance Coach
Certified Relationship Coach
NLP Master Practitioner