What is the importance of a healthy Father and Mother relationship for their children. Well as a child the first thing we see as a child is this foundation which created us. A part of our child brain asks was it really worth it? And then as time goes by we see what are the roots of our development.
If a mother and father can’t get along they try to hurt each other. Sometimes by any means necessary even hurting the children in spite of their spouse. This can go pretty far and the innocent children are made victims in the name of love and respect.
That is bad. Bad for everyone, literally. If the child does not come out of it people can see it. Children pick it up easy and can be cruel towards another child’s lack of instilled love. The child grows up and is discouraged and emotionally worn out. Now they are expected to make careers and families for our country but feel as if the love that would follow is not there and makes it difficult for them to display love. This of course leads to abandonment by their peers because of their lack of familiar gestures. With the lack of support from family and now peers life can get lonely and hard. The person can be too discouraged to work and take care of himself because there it is hard to start a knitting project when it is almost finished. The person has a hard time surviving and is now a drain on the economy.
Dismantling someone can start with a simple kiss or hug. Can it tear down a country too. This is just a reminder to all the parents out there that are in a rocky relationship. That we are in a government for the people by the people. And it starts with us. We can in so many ways paint ourselves into a corner. A child can’t pick sides like an adult and in the end there satisfaction is as important as your own. Be careful of the actions that are placed onto your children when picking out who your friends are and who your enemies are. If all bad agreements go to the wayside like our trash we will be swimming in it like so much toxic waste.
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