One night stands, are they worth it? In this day and age, many people have experienced them at least once in their lives. Formerly booed as a no-no , now seen as a way to relieve tension or get through that awkward time between relationships. How does one fall into that tabu area and do they want to stay there? One night stands – who are they for?
Otherwise touted as a booty-call, one night stands have met their place in the world. And its not all about men anymore. Women have joined in the call for duty – why, even the lady up the hall has three men on speed dial – in case one of them can’t come to her beck and call - she pushes the button for the next one.
The girl next door broke up with her boyfriend and isn’t ready to get into a relationship with anyone. She misses the intimacy, however, that the relationship offered. She’s not a woman prone to taking her own pleasures and feels ready to test out this newfound wonder of sleeping with a man she just met, or having a one night stand with a friend she has known for years.
A woman at the office feels the tension of her day. She is also feeling another type of tension – sexual tension. She’s been single for a while. Very busy with her new career and hasn’t had time for a boyfriend. If only she could find relief without having to spend a lot of time getting to know someone and wondering if it will work out. Would a one night stand be just the thing to help her relax and enjoy her day?
Not all woman are cut out to seek and find a one night stand. There are many things to think about, when considering it.
- Is it right for them?
- How will they feel afterward?
- Will they be able to walk away when they were intensely satisfied?
- What would people think of them?
- Do they care?
- Did they practice safe sex?
- What if the guy wants to see them again?
- What shall they wear?
Some women will think it is the most natural thing in the world and others will still think of it as tabu. It actually falls in the middle somewhere as a personal choice. A choice that only they can make for themselves. Being discreet is still often at play – its not something they want to want to go out and shout to the world about. But is it a dirty little secret they want to hide?
One night stands are they worth it?