Technology is a great thing in most cases. It makes our lives so much easier in many ways. There are computers and gadgets that make work and play a lot easier than it used to be. Children in school can use online services to do their homework. Going to the Library and cracking open a book most likely seems obsolete now that anyone can find a book online and read from their laptop or desk computer. Of course, while doing so they may be multi tasking with Iphones, Ipods, Ipads and whatever other gadget starts with the letter "I".
This brings one to the use of computers and electronic gadgets when it relates to human contact. Back in the day, if you liked a boy or girl, you would write a personal note and send it to them via a friend or leave it at their desk. Not now. If you like someone now, all you have to do is send them a quick message or text on your phone. Not sure about many of you, but perhaps this may be why a lot of younger people do not stay together. There is no more personal touch to anything they do anymore.
If you are unlucky enough to watch an episode of "Jersey Shore", then you can see how many young people behave. Not all of them, mind you, but the ones that crave so much attention for themselves that they put themselves in awkward positions with the opposite sex. Can you imagine anyone like "Snooki" sitting down and actually writing out her feelings on a piece of paper? Anyone from the Real World on MTV? Anyone from any other reality show? No. The form of writing loving messages has far gone away. There may still be a few out there who find the best way to introduce themselves to someone they like is by actually taking a pen and paper and pouring out their heart.
http://www.cas.sc.edu/write For those in South Carolina still interested in the fine art of writing.
Comments
You hit the nail on the head when you said there is little personal touch and less responsibility with some people now a days.
I don't care how I get told I'm loved as long as I get told. ;D
Great article, Richard. And thank goodness I've avoided watching Jersey Shore.
The video is great! Although I agree with Dawn. I don't care how the message gets sent. It's just receiving it!
Hi Richard: A beautiful article, and I think we women like to receive love letters. Thank you for this wonderful article.
I would definitely prefer a love letter as opposed to a text message. I have letters, poems and cards from my husband in a box that I hold on to and hold dear. Every once in a while it is nice to look through the collection and remember things we have been through and know just how much love was put into each thought and word. I also have written many for him as well.
Thanks for a touching way to swell a persons heart with love, thoughts and caring.
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great article
I have letters and cards that I save. Its nice to know that the person put extra effort into making it known that they love you. My husband tells me at least 5 times (if not more) that he loves me but I still like the material cards and little notes for no reason. Its sweet.
Ahhh, Southern men...you're awesome. You're absolutely right on about the intent behind taking the time to use the old fashion method - it's just classier. Agreed, it's nice in any form to be told you're loved, but it's especially nice to have it said sans the internet. Some things are worth the time and effort. Thanks for another great one.
You are right-the gadgets don't get it when it comes to love letters. Pen and paper beat electronics when it comes to thoughts that will be cherished.
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