There is no doubt that love is a powerful emotion. All one has to do is count the number of love songs and love poems that have been written in order to get an idea of just how powerful love is. Love can make the strongest man cry, and can invoke incredible strength in the weakest among us. Still the question remains: Is love fragile or strong?
Perhaps the question can best be answered after a careful evaluation of the love relationship in question. There are many types of love, and some are more healthy than others. The health of a love relationship is usually as healthy as the two individuals who merge together. If two dysfunctional, narcissistic people unite, chances are the relationship itself will be dysfunctional, filled with all kinds of problems. On the other hand, if two emotionally healthy individuals unite, chances are their union will be healthy as well. A couple cannot reap positive results from a relationship unless they sow something positive into the relationship. Unfortunately, people cannot give if they have nothing to give.
Sometimes the best thing you can do for your relationship or any future relationship you may have is to work on your own issues. Take the time to get to know yourself, and don’t be afraid to battle any demons that are keeping you from living and loving to the best of your ability. You owe it to yourself and to your future relationships.
Love can be strong, or love can be fragile. Which kind of love relationship do you choose to have?
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