Some say that love is blind; one could take that to mean that when in love you fail to see what is apparent to everyone else. Is it love that is blind; or is the one in love choosing to only see what they want to be true.
There are those that have stayed in relationships for years that are not healthy for them. They choose to ignore what is so apparent to everyone else, afraid if they confront the true reality they will have to make a decision to stay or to go.
They have made themselves feel that the option to leave would cause them a pain that they would like to avoid at any cost. This causes them to create a utopia for themselves and their loved one, which only they exist in. In this utopia they are able to function without having to confront the realities that surround them in the real world.
Religion, family and friends sometimes play apart in ones decision to stay. You don’t want either of these factors to weigh in on your decision to share your heart, your life with another individual. You want to seek God and speak to him personally, he has already seen what is ahead and only has your best interest at heart. Come to him transparently and he alone will tell you what is for you.
What is the saying “ Whatever is done in the dark comes to the light” There has never been a more true statement. One can only hide for so long from the realities of life. It is inevitable that they will come to the surface and slap u right in the face.
When the truth does come to the surface it is best to have been true to yourself the whole time prior. You will ultimately have to face what is there, wouldn’t you want o be somewhat prepared for it; rather then to be blindsided and not have a plan B in place?
Always stay true to yourself. Never ignore your gut feeling; it’s your compass through life. It guides you, and protects you from harm. What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger; embrace change, one door closed means there is another window opening.
God is love, anything that he is, should not hurt! Keeping that in mind helps one to know the difference between love and all other feelings that come disguised as love.
To know truelove is to first love your self!
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