May is filled with self-reflection. It is time for you to grow up and to become more serious. It’s not as much about finding the perfect partner as it is about learning what you deserve. Your family will be a great source of inspiration and support for you as you discover more about yourself. Observe the relationships of those around you and take the good and the bad and apply them to your own actions.
This month is centered on doubt and uncertainty, which is caused by your main romantic relationship, your friends, or your family. You will have to be able to take a step back and to analyze things before proceeding forward. Keep only proven loved ones close to you as you make your way through this month.
For you, Gemini, May is all about commitment. If you want to have a beautiful and functional relationship, then you need to know exactly what you want from it. It is very important to know ourselves not only because it helps our relationships with those around us, but also many other aspects of our lives (such as how productive we are, how confident, etc.). If you already are in a relationship, you must be honest with yourself when you analyze it.
Clarity and sincerity are the two big coordinates of this month for Cancer. You have a hard time expressing yourself to your loved ones, so you must figure out what causes this difficulty. If communication is the main issue, then you have a better chance of overcoming the difficulty of expressing yourself. Try to be more empathetic – putting yourself in other people’s shoes can help you get a different perspective on how things really are.
There is great potential in your energy throughout May. You are closer than ever to your personal balance, aspect which leads to some important possibilities. The key is to be open-minded and open-hearted at all times. Pay more attention to others, to their actions and their words, before you decide whether they are worthy of your love or not.
This May, you’re building your self-worth. In order to have a healthy and happy relationship, you need to be confident and free to be yourself as well. Usually, you are the one who gives in a relationship (time, affection, respect, etc.), while you put yourself on the second place. Find ways to increase your confidence and surround yourself with positive people.
You are blessed with a combination of skill and luck. You can easily restore the balance of any relationship so you can tie very strong, long-lasting relationships (both romantic and friendships). Appreciate your natural gifts more, because you rarely focus on how special you really are. However, remember to always remain modest and grateful. If you are single, know that this state of things may change soon.
You are naturally a solitary person. This may come across as stubborn. Being viewed in this way can greatly influence your relationships. You must find a way to be comfortable with dealing with the truth. Either develop a tougher skin or learn to be tactful. Show more compassion and sympathy towards other people. Take small steps toward improving your self-awareness: be honest, empathize, and accept when you’re wrong.
This month, positive energy flows around you and within you. You can create long-term, solid relationships this month, because you exude a positivity that attracts people to you. Keep in mind that just because you are finally attracting the right type of person doesn’t mean that they are the best fit for you. Work constantly on maintaining the confidence and self-worth you have discovered. Keep the positivity and confidence prominent in your life and in the lives of your dear ones.
Take some time for yourself this month. When it comes to your romantic bonds, you have been feeling frustrated and confused lately and you cannot figure out what the problem is. The more frustrated you get, the more your relationships suffer. Take a step back and try to think clearly. While you are pondering upon any possible issues, be honest with yourself about who may be to blame (you are not exactly the easiest person to get along with and you have communication problems).
You tend to have unrealistic expectations from your romantic relationships. Although being a natural dreamer helps you in some areas of your life, this trait can be a drawback in others. It is as if you were a child who believes in magic and fairy tales, waiting for Prince Charming to come and to sweep you off your feet. While there is nothing wrong with wishing for that, you have to understand that it isn’t likely that things will happen that way. You must develop a clear vision about the reality of the work and effort it takes to create a strong, emotionally powerful bond. Your tendency to dramatize can lead people into believing that you are unreliable and unstable. Try to find a balance between your hopes and the reality of lasting love.
You are a nurturing soul, aspect which makes you lose yourself in your relationships. This applies especially when you are deeply in love with someone: you simply throw yourself into their lives, taking on their likes and dislikes in an attempt to make them more comfortable. Although this may work well for a while, it won’t do long-term. Have confidence in yourself and your own worth to know that you deserve someone who will share in your pleasures as well as your displeasures. Also, make sure that you don’t take on too much, both emotionally and physically.