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Love and Marriage: 'about' a shag bag and a red dress


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The shag bag is a passion kit to enhance the British definition of shagging --  sex, hot and heavy.  What started out at an ultra hotel in Atlantic City is turning into creative "at home" entertainment.  It is a sexy bag of toys and treats. (And consider pairing it with a red dress or sexy red lingerie -- because men who see red, see a more passionate woman says a University of Rochester study.)

The hotel shag bag: It seems that the sex and passion kit for $18 is a very hot seller. Here is the catch.  Take it off the shelf.  Spend more than 60 seconds examining the contents from condoms to toys, and it is yours, billed to your room.
The stay-at-home shag kit:  Want to create some unexpected passion in your home? Make up your own passion pack. Fill it with unexpected pleasure from toys to a page from one of the magazines that talks about a myriad of new tantalizing tips. One friend always includes a few cards from a deck with 52 positions and off they go.
 
Anything goes:  Actually I have an antique and jeweled collection of purses that hang in the living room "Always ready to party."  One day a friend asked if she could borrow one.  Then the next week, she borrowed another.  Then another.  She always returned them and never said a word about the event she was attending.  Finally one day she fessed up. "When my husband comes home and sees one of your jeweled purses on the mantle, then he knows -- anything goes!"
 
For more about red:
 
Shag bag for the golf course -- they are for carrying balls.  And: if you man doesn't own a green golf bag -- put it on your gift list. Even golf bags are going green

 Copyright 2009 Rita Watson

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Rita Esposito Watson writes about love, lies, commitment and sex for both her syndicated blog at www.ritawatson.com and the Providence Journal. She was formerly at Yale and the New York Times.

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  • TB 2 years ago

    I always knew some men have shoe fetishes, but purses...that's a whole new shade of playful.

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