The Kardashian's are famous for airing all of their dirty laundry while allowing cameras to follow their every move. It becomes no surprise that when you decide to broadcast your life across the world, that eventually any secret your family has will likely be exposed. Radar Online reports both of Robert Kardashian's ex-wives decided to reveal to Star Magazine that Robert is not Khloe’s father. Given Khloe’s age it also sounds like the ex-wives are accusing Kris of an extra marital affair.
Whether this is true or not, it doesn’t really matter at this point. Once a relationship is over, why does a woman choose to wage a war against the man? If your relationship ended horribly, why not choose the high road and stop discussing matters that no longer concern you. Robert’s ex-wives should be ashamed of themselves for bringing up this situation, knowing that Robert is unable to defend this claim.
Taking this course of action makes you look bad once the relationship has ended. If you are the person who continues to discuss every secret, conversation, or bad habit of your ex-husband/ex-boyfriend, this does nothing more than make you appear bitter and stuck in the past.
Stop living in your past and move on with your life. You have to stop attempting to make yourself relevant in someone else’s life. Unless you are sitting in front of a therapist discussing your life, you really need to stop discussing the bad points of your failed relationship.
The saying goes “there’s nothing worse than a woman scorn.” In the case of Khloe Kardashian, this is a situation where someone is looking to capitalize off of her fame by selling their story. It’s not surprise that Radar Online reports that one of the Exes has lost their home and has filed for Chapter 7 bankruptcy.
Things Vindictive Women May Do
- They may post shameful pictures, content or videos of you on the internet.
- They may say things in front of your new wife or girlfriend to try to get you in "trouble." She wants you to fight with your wife. Your unhappiness will be her pleasure.
- She may use your children as leverage in order to try to get what she wants from you.
- Here's a good one...She may use a transcriber service to call you while you're with your wife. She types what she wants to say, from her computer. The transcriber then reads the message to you over the phone and when you respond, the transcriber types your response back to her. She pretends to be someone else and claims to have recently "been with" you.
- She may put you through hell, but acts sweet and innocent to your family and friends. She tries to stay close to your family in order to stay close to you, or just to piss you off.
- She may try to turn your kids against you and/or your wife. Check out information about Parental Alienation Syndrome.
- They may lie about domestic violence and obtain a PFA (Protection from Abuse) Order, to sway the court in her favor when it comes to custody. A judge may rule in her favor by "ruling on the side of caution."
How to Deal with a Vindictive Woman
- Ignore what you can. If she sees that her actions have little to no affect on you, her efforts should gradually cease.
- Don’t let her get to you. When it's possible, ignore her and just concentrate on you, your new family and your children. Work on being the best person you can be to your wife and kids.
- If things are really bad, do some research at your county courthouse or speak with a lawyer. There may be some type of legal action you can use to make her stop. Restraining orders are always good.
- Limit contact with her. Only speak with her in regards to the children and arrangements to be made in regards to the children. If you must, only contact or allow her to contact you, through email or text messages. This is also good because you will have everything she says to you documented and you may be able to use these in court, in your favor. Be careful though as to what you say. She may be thinking of doing the same thing.
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