There are so many things to consider these days in terms of keeping your teenage child safe. Teens are driving. Teens are dating. Teens are on the Internet. On top of that, teens can be impulsive, rebellious and not always conscious of the consequences of their behavior.
So, how does a parent keep their teenager safe? First, and foremost, you want to maintain open lines of communication between you and your teen. Yes, I understand that this is sometimes easier said than done. Consider the possibility of agreeing to disagree; for there is value in being able to talk to them, as well as listening to what they are telling you.
I have found that teens can be very forthright and honest. They often want to tell you about the mischief they are conceiving, as they are quite proud of themselves. For every secretive child, there are 5 more who don't think twice about enthusiastically sharing about some of the outrageous things they are planning -- or have done.
Try not to shut them down with quick judgments. If they are open to sharing with you, you have a wonderful opportunity to use that conversation to help them explore and understand the possible consequences of their behavior. Ask questions like: "So what do you imagine could be some potential problems with building a bike ramp off of the roof into the pool?"
Teens are amazing. Teens are wonderful. They are also oblivious of the fragileness of these human bodies we reside in. They think they are invinceable and will live forever. Do you remember when you used to feel that way? The good news is that you survived your Teen Years. Now it's your turn to pass on your wisdom -- to this next generation.
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