In the season finale of "The Bachelor,” someone forgot to tell the Bachelor Juan Pablo aka "J Pab" show was about finding love and not a hook up. In the final Rose Ceremony Pablo choose Nikki Ferrell over Clare Crawley from Sacramento, CA, which is how show usually ends. Someone wins and someone loses. There’s generally some sad, angry, and disappointed women on the finale show who didn’t get picked followed by the anticipation and curiosity as to whether the final two people, Pablo and Ferrell, are actually in love. People want to know?
Pablo literally and single handily destroyed the premise on the show by avoiding questions as to whether he was in love and failed to answer any questions about couples further plans. He changed the rules and spoiled the show for his own selfish reasons. Privacy, if your want privacy don't go on a reality show for love. The finale was a disappointment. We committed to watching and he should have committed to disclosing.
But it gets worst, Ferrell publicly professed her love for Pablo in front of an estimated 12 million viewers more than once. When he was asked about his love for her he avoided the question, sad and embarrassing. How could two people be happy when only one of them is clearly in love? Crawley shouldn’t feel slighted at all because "J Pab" left us all hanging even after he made his choice.