In his quest to win Sandra Bullock back, Jesse James is leaving no stone
unturned. Jesse's TV interview on ABC's Nightline may have been a plea
for a second chance. Photo: AP/Arroyo
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Jesse James has launched a full scale campaign to win Sandra Bullock back.
In his quest to win back the woman he loves, Jesse is leaving no stone unturned.
He’s doing everything he can to show through both words and deeds that he wants Sandra Bullock’s forgiveness, and his family back intact.
Jesse’s attorney and friend, Joe Yanny, described Jesse as a “broken man" who was still very much in love with his wife.
Jesse acknowledges that his infidelity has cost him his marriage, the woman he loves, the baby they waited 4 years to adopt, and the cohesive family unit they once had.
But he’s on a mission to get them back.
Jesse James' TV Interview
Jesse’s TV interview on ABC’s Nightline may have been an integral part of his plan to win back the woman he loves. See Will Jesse James’ Nightline Interview Convince Sandra Bullock to Take Him Back?
The interview might have been Jesse’s way of showing Sandra Bullock how deeply he regrets what he did.
They say a picture is worth 1000 words. Anyone who watched Jesse’s TV interview could see he was filled with remorse. The pain was visible in his eyes.
Through his facial expressions and his body language, it was evident that Jesse was pleading for a second chance.
It was reported that Sandra Bullock did not plan to watch Jesse’s interview.
But if she did watch, it’s possible that she might have a change of heart. See Sandra Bullock’s Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women With Cheating Mates
Jesse’s Statement in People Magazine
Jesse James also attempted to reach out to Sandra Bullock through the issue of People magazine in which Sandra announced she was filing for divorce. See Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy
In the statement that accompanied the article, Jesse spoke of his deep love for Sandra Bullock, and for little Louis Bardo, the baby boy he and Sandra waited so long to adopt.
Jesse referred to Sandra Bullock as “the love of his life,” and said that not having little Louis around to love left “a huge hole in his heart.”
Even though Jesse cheated on Sandra Bullock, his love for her is still strong, and he’s not going to give her up without a fight. See Happy Husbands Cheat, Too.
An Appeal to Sandra Based on Family Ties
Sandra Bullock has strong ties to Jesse’s 3 children. She and the children share a mutual and very genuine love.
Jesse is counting on that love, and the bond between Sandra and his children to help him win her back.
He’s tried to reaching out to Sandra Bullock by appealing for her to “come back to her family.”
Relocating to Texas
Once the divorce was announced, Jesse didn’t hesitate to put the house he and Sandra Bullock lived in on the market for sale.
He’s already made an offer on a house in Austin, Texas, where Sandra also has a home and spends a great deal time.
This way, Jesse and his children can be close to Sandra Bullock, and to little Louis, who he still refers to as “‘my son.”
Going to a Rehab to Get Help With His Personal Issues
Jesse checked himself into a rehab facility in Arizona so he could deal with some serious personal issues which may have contributed to his infidelity. (sex addiction, anger management, being the victim of child abuse while growing up.) See Could Your Cheating Husband or Boyfriend be a Sex Addict Like Tiger Woods or Jesse James?
You couldn’t help but be moved by the expression on Jesse’s face when he said Sandra told him she was proud of him for going to get help
Her love and approval obviously mean a lot to him.
Doing Everything He Can to Please Sandra Bullock
Even though Jesse stated emphatically that a divorce is not what he wants, he has come to terms with the fact that the divorce Sandra Bullock filed for is going through.
Jesse has chosen not to contest the divorce, or the single parent adoption of little Louis, because Sandra wants is, and Jesse wants to please her.
He has resigned himself to doing things her way – even though he calls it the most difficult decision of his life.
But Jesse is determined to do whatever it takes to please the woman he loves. Jesse says he understands why things have to be done Sandra’s way, and feels that after all the pain he’s caused her, it would be selfish of him to stand in her way.
So he’s setting the woman he loves free, while holding on to the hope that one day he’ll get her back.
It reminds me of a greeting card verse I read years ago that went something like this:
If you something, set it free.
If it doesn’t come back, it was never really yours.
It’s not unusual for a divorced couple to reconcile with each other and re-marry.
No doubt, Jesse James is clinging fiercely to that hope.
I sincerely wish Jesse James success in his quest to win Sandra Bullock back.
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*** © copyright 2010 Ruth Houston All Rights Reserved.
Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com , the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com
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Comments
It's not smart to stay married to a crazy person. Run Sandy run.
I think he is a good person.I admire his fight,taking his wife back.Purgatory for him.Long,long Purgatory.
Jesse is trailer trash. The sooner that Sandra finalizes her divorce the better.
This man is a role model for Sandra's children? Unprotected sex with muliple partners who also had multiple partners? His children may be small now, but what will they say about him abusing people in his life? He said his Dad caused his problems. What problems will his behavior contribute to his own children? Sandra's new child? Taking him back invites these unresloved issues into her life... again. Joan Rivers can't plastic surgery that history out of it. LoL
Go JESSE GO Get Her. God will be with You!
You wish Jesse James success in getting her back? So you wish him the ability to betray humiliate and assoiciate her with the type of women he tricked her with in the past. You wish him to continue to trick, betray and hurt her. Wow! Who is heartless here?
Forgiveness is devine. God forgives, what makes us any different? Everyone makes mistakes. Who are we to judge him? He seems truly sorry. I admire him for going on TV knowing he would be being judged by the entire country. Sandra must have had some idea that infidelity would be a possibility, being as handsome as he is at his age and having the "bad boy" reputation that he does. Oh and let's not forget the infamous mid-life crisis stage. Good luck, Jesse. I wish you all the best. Sandra, please give him another chance. You look so great together. Just make sure he gets himself checked for STDs.
i have to admit that they seemed like an odd couple at first, but i soon realized how much they loved one another. it was cool to see them both willing to go outside their norm for each other (her riding dirtbikes and him in a tux). it really sucks that jesse betrayed her so badly. but i'm still rooting for them though! i hope they both can heal and find their happines once again! don't give up jesse!
In cheating,it obvious tht he/she who cheats no longer loves the othr person in any relationships whthr its live in or marriage. So whts the use of reconciling b.c you can move on and find urself a person who respects nd love you only. Obviously he's been in relationship(casual or serious) w.the other woman or women more thn 1 occasion. So,it's better for sandra to move on nd let jesse do whtevr he wants,she doesn't need to go thru the humiliaton tht she wnt thru. He is sorry b.c he has gone thru child abuse nd top of tht his cheating whn he is in his 40s. He can handle his problem nd take time to sort evrythin,but its not neccessary to involve sandra in his affairs by reconciling.
@sandy
dude,forgivness is done whn jesse cud hav admitted his affairs to his wife in person,not let the tabloids publish dirty linen abt their personal life. Their relationship is an open book, so anything tht's exciting will be known. Evn though it hurts the family for their personal life to be exposed like tht,bt jesse got wht ws coming. Any person will divorce in the case of cheating nd its simply b.c you want to move since the relationship ws a lie in the first place. Leave sandra out of this,jesse can comeon evry t.v channel nd speak abt his life nd affairs. He shd know sandra wntd to protect this relationship frm the spotlight nd now he comes on t.v,rathr it takes guts to tell all of this to sandra not on t.v. Isn't his mistress doin the same thing on t.v,so u admire evn her coming on t.v
You made me sick with that end line about wishing Jesse James luck in winning back Sandra. Why not just announce to all women everywhere that its perfectly OK to go back to a lying, cheating, womanizing, embarrassment just because he chokes up a little and says 'sorry'. Bah, humbug.
Once they cheat, this is it. no forgiveness, no notbing. it's simple in the land of love: if you don't want to be married to the same person for the rest of your life (or close to it), then don't. then sport with the tattoo btches, ain't no big thing. no commitment, no obligations.
I sympathize with Jessie because I think he truly loves her and misses her deeply. However, people unfortunately don't merely change because they would like to. I think his problems and ability to compartmentalize and lie to Sandra throughout their entire relationship wouldn't bode well for a second chance.
I wish Jessie healing and a new life, but not Sandra. I think she needs someone else.
TO ERR IS HUMAN AND TO FORGIVE IS DEVINE ..WE R ALL ONLY HUMAN AND MAKE MISTAKES THAT UNFORTUNEATLY HURT THE PEOPLE WE LOVE MOST. I THINK THEY STAND A CHANCE , IT WILL TAKE A WHILE FOR SANDY TO FORGIVE HIM BUT IN THE LONG RUN LOVE WILL WIN. I ALSO KNOW THAT YOU CAN FORGIVE BUT ITS HARD TO FORGET. THE ONLY WAY IT WILL WORK IS IF THE FORGIVENESS IS THERE AND THEY LOOK FORWARD NOT BACK . YOU CANT DRIVE A CAR WHILE LOOKING IN THE REAR VIEW MIRROR.(*_*) THEY BOTH R GOOD PEOPLE AND I TRULY BELIEVE THAT THEY CAN MAKE IT WORK. GOOD LUCK TO YOU BOTH AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU. DONT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER. JESSE HAS A HEART OF GOLD AND SO DOES SANDRA. THEY MAKE THE PERFECT COUPLE. THEY R LIKE A AND FROSTING BOTH R GOOD ALONE BUT TOGETHER THEY R GREAT.
CORRECTION .CAKE AND FROSTING.BOTH ARE GOOD ALONE BUT TOGETHER THEY ARE GREAT. MAKE A FRESH START AND LET THE PAST BE JUST TAKE THE PAST LOOK TO TOMORROW . BUT LIVE FOR TODAY. SOMETHING I
WROTE..TEST OF TIME.IF LOVE CAN PASS THE TEST OF TIME I KNOW SOMEDAY YOU WILL BE MINE.IF LOVE CAN PASS THE TEST OF TIME I KNOW SOMEDAY THET YOU WILL FIND .THAT I WOULD NEVER EVER STRAY OR HURT YOU IN ANY WAY.I HOPE THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS KNOW THAT FOR YOU MY LOVE WILL GROW.I HOPE THAT YOU WILLBELIEVE IN ME AND LET MY LOVE JUST SET YOU FREE..FROM ALL THE PAIN THAT YOU'VE BEEN HIDING THERE REALLY IS NO USE IN FIGHTING.i CAN SEE IT IN YOUR EYES YOU KNOW IN ME THERE WILL BE NO LIES.YOU DESERVE THE VERY BEST AND FORGET ABOUT THE REST.YOU WILL DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU THE WAY YOU KNOW I WANT YOU TO I REAALLY WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY AND HAPPINESS IS WAT U WILL GET PLEASE MY LOVE PLEASE DONT FORGET IF LOVE CAN PASS THE TEST OF TIME I KNOW SOMEDAY YOU WILL BE MINE.*INSPIRATIONS OF THE HEART BY EMD LIBRARY OF CONGRS
A very small "perhaps" this could happen, if the entire world didn't know about his many infidelities. I had a few "meetings" with Jesse right before he married Janine. I knew nothing about his personal life at the time. But it was very easy to meet him. An e-mail, a photo, and viola! An invitation on Sunday when the store is closed. 2 months later, I heard he married Janine. It's sad. They "seemed" so happy. I was truly astonished (not because I am a troll) but to be so easily introduced, personally. It took only minutes to get a reply. I believe that's just the way he is. He is insecure, and needs women to qualify him. My feeling, anyway.
He makes me sick..he is such a poser, so full of it...he belongs in the movies, such an actor...he got caught..he makes every sick...uggggh
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