LOVE is the most important emotion in every culture around the world. It is the most discussed topic on a daily basis. It is what makes us feel complete. Without love there is emptiness & less purpose in our lives. Whether you are single, married or dating, there is always room for improving the love in your life. People are so busy with careers, their children & other priorities that they forget to nurture their relationships or how to be “in one” at all. Both sexes in Vancouver complain regularly that dating is almost non existant but do they really make the effort to explore the possibilities? Or are they just a little too busy to allow it to happen?
How can we bring more love into our lives?
Prioritized diversity is the key to attracting & keeping love in your life. Believing you deserve a wonderful relationship will keep your body language open to receiving that love. Take the time everyday to listen & interact with your partner or a potential love interest. People want to be heard & acknowledged with positive energy. Singles should be open to new challenges & constantly put themselves into situations that allow conversation with new people. Learn to appreciate yourself & remember everyone has insecurities they just don’t talk about them right away. (You wouldn’t tell a potential employee all your faults or you wouldn’t get the job!) Never give up on love, regardless of past hurt, busy careers or age, as there is someone for everyone. There are relationship coaches like Vancouver's Mick Lolekonda that can help you through this & get you on the right track to bringing love back into your life.
How do you spend your time on a daily basis?
There must be compromise with your career. Are you running away from love & burying yourself within your job to keep busy? Is your relationship dull because you have both forgot how to love each other? Having common interests is very important when dating or in a marriage. It keeps the couple passionate on a similar level when doing something they love together. Consuming careers or hobbies will eventually destroy a happy home due to the “emotional negligence” that comes with it. Love needs to be fuelled regularly or it burns out & eventually dies. Making time for love should be your number one priority.
How do we keep The Love “Alive” on A Regular Basis?
Put your relationship first & pay attention to the little things that make your partner happy. Truly listen to what they say. Do not take your partner for granted & become predictable. Complacency is a relationship killer. Plan regular date nights, mini holidays or exciting events that give you something to look forward to. Get a babysitter for the kids & talk to each other outside the home. (Vancouver has wonderful services such as Nannies On Call available for daily, part time or live in childcare.) Make time to be available for sex at least a few times a week, preferably more. People with long & healthy marriages will always tell you, the sex & affection was consistent throughout.
Susan McCord @ http://www.youtube.com/twobeavers
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