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In the news: US-Indonesian teen escapes her alleged sadistic Malaysian Prince

Her smile and eyes are wide, but no longer innocent, if the accusations against her husband are true. Married at 16 to a Malaysian Prince fourteen years her senior, Manohara Odelia Pinot was finally able to escape her alleged abuser with the help of Singapore police. And the young woman isn’t even yet 18. Click here to read the AFP news story.

 

What possesses one human being to deliberately and systematically harm another?  According to the article, the young woman was raped, beaten, drugged, and cut with razors on her chest, all by her husband, Tengku Temenggong Mohammad Fakhry, the prince of the state of Kelantan in Malaysia. If this is true, her fairytale wedding turned into a nightmare marriage, and one can only breathe a sigh of relief that she managed to flee when she did.

 

I’m unfamiliar with Malaysian society and culture, but a quick internet search did reveal that the region in question, Kelantan, is located in the north-east peninsula of Malaysia, and is heavily influenced by fundamental, conservative Islamic rule. Why mention this potentially inflammatory bit of information? Because readers who know me know that the respect of and towards women is something I hold dear to my heart, and I have already written about similar stories in the past (click here to read, "A letter to the man accused of chopping off his wife's head.")

Modern Love, as I seek to define it, necessitates the egalitarian view of and behavior toward both partners. I don’t care how royal a man’s family may be, or his religion for that matter; but if someone hides behind either to justify abuse of another, I’m going to ask the hard questions. Is there a connection in this situation, or are we dealing with suspected garden-variety sadism? More information will have to come out to determine that answer, but at least for now it seems that this young woman’s prayers were finally heard.

Photo courtesy of AFP.

Special thanks to a few readers who pointed out that an earlier version of this story referred to the alledged abuser as a masochist, when indeed the correct term is sadist.

© 2009 all rights reserved Tinamarie Bernard

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