It isn’t an easy thing to win a Gemini man’s affection given his party boy lifestyle. This man often has commitment issues, strongly dislikes routine, and wants complete freedom. Moreover, he is one of the most inconsistent signs of the zodiac. The Gemini-born man is usually stimulating, exciting, and surprising, but if you want to win his heart, you’ll have to be patient with him and to learn to trust him.
Those who wish to conquer the love of a Gemini man has to be a cheerful person in order to charm him. A note of mystery is always welcome as it sets his imagination on fire and determines him to want to know you better. Being funny is definitely a big plus. This man enjoys a challenge, so he will be incredibly interested in a woman seems to be unattainable, out of his reach. The Gemini is a talkative individual and as such he loves to communicate. A good way to interact with him if you don’t know him very well is to tell jokes. A pro technique: take him by surprise with a naughty joke and then smile innocently.
Keep in mind that this man constantly needs variety and change. Also, he doesn’t take any interest in a person whom he can easily figure out. Don’t be an open book; keep him interested by not revealing everything about yourself at once. Otherwise, he may get the feeling that there is nothing to be discovered, and as such, he will become bored and search for something new elsewhere.
The Gemini man is sometimes childish, reason why he enjoys games in general. Provide him some stimulating activities for his mind, for example, guessing games. Also, don't be offended if one day he is nice to you and the other he seems indifferent. Keep your emotions in check and don’t let him see that you have feelings for him – the more ‘unreadable’ and spontaneous you are, the harder he’ll fall for you.
Now that we’ve talked about what to do in order to win a Gemini man’s heart, let’s take a look at what to avoid. As already mentioned above, this man is made to socialize. This provides him with a means to avoid commitment: he shows a bit of interest in everyone and everything, thus staying clear from any commitment. To win his affection, be as patient and as understanding as possible. Flirting is also part of socializing, so the person who wants to be with him has to overcome jealous tendencies. Besides, he doesn’t flirt because he’s looking for a new partner, but rather for the sake of it.
Don't pray and hope that he’ll call you. Geminis are usually too busy to make phone calls. Be independent, have your own circle of friends, and develop a healthy social life which doesn’t depend on him or his friends. The Gemini man loves an intelligent conversation, so make sure to enrich your knowledge of various topics so that you may engage in a meaningful, entertaining conversation with him. The good thing is that he will not shy away from any topic, no matter how uncomfortable, so you have no limitations when it comes to picking a subject to talk about.
Lastly but not least, it is important to resist the temptation to force him into a commitment. In this scenario, the Gemini man usually distances himself immediately. Also, don’t ask him how much he loves you, because he lives with the conviction that the most important things in life are felt and not explained. He will show you his feelings in his own way and only when he is ready.