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How to tell if your husband is cheating

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Well men are smart. They will make every endeavor to hide their secret thing. It’s very unlikely that they are going to come home with lipstick stains and reeking of a different woman’s perfume. But there are evident signs to find out whether they really are cheating. A cheating husband’s traits are behavioral and if you observe carefully, you will notice them over time.

Appearances can be deceiving

A sudden transformation in your spouse is not very normal. If your couch-potato husband is suddenly hitting the gym then you better watch out. There may be a younger colleague he is trying to impress or he has found a new partner in the gym itself. In either case you should be on your mark because we know what is lying ahead.

Those days are gone

His attitude towards you has suddenly changed. Your sweet, once so friendly husband has started criticizing you for no reason at all. He finds fault in every little thing and finds excuses to push you away. If these are your recent encounters then you better take your guard because it’s that time before the huge storm. May be your better half is attracted to someone else. He has really found someone better than you or at least, he thinks the new one is better.

Together yet miles apart

It is difficult for any person to get emotionally attached with 2 persons at once. If you find your husband distant for quite some time, this is the reason. If he has stopped saying those cheesy lines or giving those warm hugs then it is obvious that she is slowly getting attached with someone else and wants to keep you away. These acts are simply guilt of cheating. He doesn’t want to hurt you, at the same time you no longer means the world to him.

Surprising

If you find your husband suddenly showering you with gifts or doing the dishes then don’t get over excited. This might well be a sign of guilt that he is trying to hide or get rid of. Over affection is another such act which you should see with caution. Don’t let these acts fool you.

Get hold of that cell phone

If your spouse has become paranoid with his cell phone and don’t want you to get near to it, know that there is something wrong. Talking secretly for long hours or texting for hours is definitely a sign of a different woman’s presence in his life.

He is not the same man

If your spouse has suddenly become too busy with work, or pulling off too much of over time or doing a lot of business trips then it is totally possible that these extracurricular activities involves a different woman. Gradually he is making hi time shorter and shorter to spend time with his new found love.

Why he doesn’t pick up calls

A cheating husband’s trait is to skip calls from wife. He will find excuses such as meetings, trips or no network zone. These are very silly and easily noticeable excuses which you should understand as signs of extra marital affairs. The same meaning implies if his phone is busy hour after hour. This will be the time for you to act.

Because your gut already knows

It’s because a women’s intuition is deadlier than an antenna. If you feel something is wrong then it is likely that something is definitely wrong. It is difficult for a man to cheat and act normal. You will sense that the chemistry is somewhere disturbed. Act on it now.

No pleasure

If you find your husband more or less interested in sex then it is a definite call for trouble. Less sex might mean that he is satisfying someone else and saving all his energy to dedicate the woman he is attracted to. More sex is a sign of guilt. He just doesn’t want to let you know, no matter how?

Who is that girl?

If he keeps mentioning a particular woman in his conversation then it is a sure sign of his bonding. Answers like just a friend, very attentive worker, getting along well are signs of trouble. This is being half truthful. Your man is well on his way making plans to get rid of you very soon. Want to see if you have a cheating wife? Make sure to read: "How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating"

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