You're a single that's confident, witty, and fun with a great sense of humor. You're hardworking and compassionate. You volunteer at your local non-profits but you still haven't met Mr. or Ms. Right.
Don't get discouraged. The Washington DC metropolitan area is full of singles just like you. Even those ready for real relationships ( exclusive, 100% committed relationships).
So what's your hold up?
It has nothing to do with you not being a great catch. You just need to sell yourself better. You can change your whole dating experience in Washington DC simply by mastering the art of picking up dates.
The more people you meet, the better your chances become to find Mr. or Ms. Right.
And no you don't have to have sex with every prospect to get what you want. In fact, you don't have to have sex with anyone to find someone good for you.
As you navigate the Washington DC dating scene, you need to set your standards high. You need to show your prospects that you're a challenge and someone worth earning their attention, time and efforts.
And if you don't believe you deserve to be chased by the best of the best in DC, you need to change your attitude because it's not going to get you anywhere.
To make someone you cannot stop thinking about to want you and only you, you need to plant the seed of attraction for you into his or her everyday life.
You can start by using bold conversation points and sticking to your personality. There's no point in selling a fake you because real love will love you for you.
The conversation points need to be clear and concise. You need a strong delivery and above all you cannot chicken out. Stick to your guns. Keep a smile. Add in a wink. Remember, the early bird charmer gets the worm.
Here are some ways you can help the one that you like keep you in mind:
- Compliment his/her style of taste. " Hey, those shoes look great.You have such a good sense of style." As long as the compliment is meaningful, you cannot go wrong.
- You look like ________ insert someone you admire or find good looking.
- Get bold. "I would so let ________( insert date activity) if you're courageous enough to ask."
- Subtle compliment." I like your ______( insert positive change you have noticed).
As long as you are not desperately seeking attention, you are good to go. If it doesn't work,keep trying from time to time. If the person is interested in you as well, he/she will have no problem chasing after you for attention. If you're dating a real man or woman, the individual will find a way to ask or be asked on a date.
Give. Drawback. Give. In that order.
You don't have to play mind games to get what you want. If you want someone, show it.
If you are crazy about someone after a few dates and the person treats you well,stop dating other people. Commit to making it work for the long haul. Otherwise, you'll waste your precious time.
If it doesn't feel right, respectfully drop it and keep on with your DC dating. What is meant to be will be.
DC dating can get overwhelming. As long as you keep your eyes on the prize and avoid micromanaging your life, you will have no problem finding Mr. or Ms. Right.
You have plenty of time to get to know someone special. So don't stand around waiting for it to happen. Go out and date. Respect yourself. And never be too available. Good luck will follow!
P.S- Don't forget to check out the video to help you pick the perfect outfit for that very first date.