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How to make your man happy

Our society places a lot of focus on how men should please their wives, give them flowers, hold doors for them, and so on. But we don’t hear much about how women should please their husbands and make them happy.

Traditionally, we may think pleasing our men is as simple as keeping the house clean, cooking for them, and caring for their children. Those are all important things, but none of them is the most important.

One of the best ways to please your husband is to fulfill his sexual needs. Did you know that men have a physical need for sexual release every 48 to 72 hours? That’s right. That’s how they’re wired by their Creator. It’s not a bad thing. Just as we women need regular emotional fulfillment, men need regular sexual fulfillment.

If you will strive to please your husband in this vital area, you may be surprised at the results. You may find him more in tune with you and more apt to meet your needs. Think about it. If you continually aim to fulfill your husband’s sexual needs and he continually works toward meeting your emotional needs, you’re almost guaranteed a happier, more fulfilling marriage. What do you have to lose? Why not give it a try?

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* If you’re thinking, “Yeah, right,” you may want to talk to a professional counselor about your situation.

, Phoenix Marriage Examiner

With more than 20 years of marriage and writing under her belt, Lana Gates tackles some of the issues that affect all marriages, looks for ways to encourage marriages to thrive, and keeps abreast of the latest marriage-related news in the Phoenix area. Email her at lgates@gates-works.com.

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