You and your guy have been together for a long time. Lately you haven't been feeling the same as you did when you first met.
There are signs when your relationship is in trouble. One of the signs is you don't feel the spark anymore. When you first met everything that person said or did would excite you. Now when the phone rings you don't even care. When you love someone you can't wait to hear from them. Any hesitation is a sign that the relationship is going downhill.
You don't want it to be known that you are in a relationship. You see a hot guy and temptation is way too easy. You want to flirt and don't care about the fact that you are already in a relationship.
You don't care about your relationship or your significant other. You don't care if he cheats on you or you too break up.
You fight about the little things. Lately everything the other person said or does annoys you. you want to spend as much time away from each other as possible. You don't even want to kiss or sleep with each other anymore.
Once you lose the spark you lose everything. You could go to couples counseling and fix your problems if you want to fix your relationship. If not then maybe it is time that the both of you say good-bye to each other and move on.