This week we will look into the personal side of this issue, next week the public side.
Sex should not be embarrassing; the act of making love is an act of desire, pure desire. If you desire the one you love then why be embarrassed by the attention you show them… or vise versa; the affections they may show you? What happens in the bedroom is for you and yours to enjoy and embark upon.
If your desires come from a place of love and compassion they can do you no wrong. Just as long as you and your partner share and communicate openly. So feel no shame, and feel no regrets, if you go into a situation of naughty nakedness, do this because you and your partner wish too.
Now if you are feeling inhibited or shameful before the encounter, look inside and find out why you feel this way, talk about it with your partner work through the issue so that you have no regrets. Passion should be enjoyed completely by both the giver and receiver.
Sometimes the negative whispers of the past will confuse us; make us unsure and unwilling to try new things. Do not allow the guilt’s or shames of others to influence you. Go by your own heart and your own intuition. Making love is a beautiful thing, and expanding your vistas in this arena will in All-Ways keep it anew and strong.
Do not allow your Egos to get involved; there is no place in lovemaking for egos. Feel, experience communicate, and enjoy each other. Appreciate the sensuality you receive from one and other.
And lastly, be able to please and love yourself if you expect to allow someone else to please or share his or her love with you. Learn your own body. See and experience your body in different ways. Once you reach this understanding, you will be pleasured, and able to accept love more easily from another.
Making Love, having sex, or being naughty in the bedroom should in All-Ways be a beautiful experience; there is no shame but the shame you may impose upon yourself, due to prior programming or thoughts implanted within you from well meaning friends or family, along this road we call life. It matters not what others may think, believe in yourself, experience from the heart and allow the shame to melt away.
‘First and foremost, be safe in all that you practice and do. Learn to love yourself so that you may allow others to love you. Channel all of this wonderful energy and love into all of your relationships, and into all that you may do within your life.’ [Copyright, Michael Schuessler]
Changing The World One Orgasm ~ At A Time™
Michael Schuessler, author of the sex and sensuality classic, ‘The Holy G-rail', Please visit his website, www.theholyg-rail.com to see all the different forms of Michaels works of creativity.
If you have any questions, in the sensual or sexual arena of life please E-mail me. (Use an alias if you'd like to keep your privacy).
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