Attracting Hot Women With Awesome Conversations Online
No matter who you are, if you’re trying to meet women online, you’ve got a HUGE obstacle ahead of you. The fact is: Every guy wants to be with an attractive woman, but the more attractive a woman is, the harder it is to get her to write you back.
You might think it’s because the average guy isn’t good-looking enough, but that couldn’t be further from the truth... Actually, it has WAY more to do with her inbox and what’s inside it than anything else.
But before getting into that, take a look at YOUR inbox and what’s inside it. Probably nothing, right? As sad as it sounds, that’s normal. When an average guy gets an email online, even from an extremely undesirable woman, it’s a cause for celebration. That’s because guys, even the ones with perfect profiles and pictures, don’t get anywhere near the amount attention that women do.
Maybe you haven’t considered this but the typical woman online, no matter what her profile says, is guaranteed to have an inbox exploding with emails. But that’s not to say she has it easy. In her defense, she’s got a pretty serious problem as well…
While you’re dealing with a wall of silence, she’s facing a gigantic tornado of dullness... There she is, the most gorgeous girl in the world (a girl you’d do anything to be with), and she’s sifting through boring message after message, desperate for ANYTHING that’s interesting and unique. But they all sound the same...
Sure, it’s a confidence booster the first time you hear it, but “you’re so hot baby… write me back if you think I am too!!!” starts annoying the crap out of you faster than you might think. In the end, she’s got feedback after feedback that she’s desirable. Her ego is through the roof, but she isn’t attracted to anyone. And it only gets worse…
The more beautiful she is, the more insanely stuffed her inbox is. For this reason, the most desirable women online are COMPLETELY desensitized. Truly, if you use normal logic and reasoning to decide what might be a good approach, you better believe that every guy online is doing the same exact thing. Unfortunately, you’re going to end up sounding just all the other schlubs that are getting ignored.
Prince Charming is unique, confident, original, and he sets himself apart from the pack. But for most women online, Prince Charming is nowhere to be seen...
That’s why you need to develop strategy that’s DIFFERENT. And fortunately, it’s a lot easier than you might think. Once you learn a few simple tricks that get girls to write you back online, you’ll immediately step outside the “loser” box. You’ll find yourself light-years ahead of the competition.
Actually, you won’t really have any competition at all.
The SECRET of Icebreaker Emails That Get a Response
Bar none, the strongest weapon in your arsenal when it comes to getting a response from a beautiful woman online is this: a fun, interesting, and open-ended question. It will appear at the end of your email (just before your signature) and it needs to be compelling enough so she’s excited to respond.
Your question also needs to be SIMPLE enough for her to respond without a ton of thought. Save the super difficult, witty and complicated question for later – maybe over a cup of coffee or an elegant glass of wine.
Keep in mind that your email is one of 50 or 100 others that she has to read. If it demands a lot of attention… you might get saved for later and completely forgotten about. She might have loved what you said, but with so many emails it’s really easy to get lost in the shuffle.
Attraction is never about thinking anyway… when a gorgeous blonde walks by at the grocery store, are you thinking or are you feeling? When things start getting overly logical, the attraction disappears. For that reason, you’ve got to keep your question pretty easy, but at the same time it can’t be boring. They need to stimulate her emotions.
Ask questions about topics that get women emotionally excited. It’s not a job interview. Don’t ask about her past employment history, her education… these are logical topics. Get her to talk about conflicting emotions, dramatic themes, conspiracy, and adventure… These kinds of things will kick her emotions into gear. When can make her FEEL, that’s when the attraction starts.
Questions like this:
“You seem like you might be someone with a lot of passion for travel and spontaneous adventure. So tell me…if someone came up to you tomorrow and gave you a free trip to anywhere in the world, where would you go?”
Or:
“So your friends say you’re funny, adventurous and loyal… that’s awesome. But, really, what I want to know is this… how would your enemies describe you?;-)”
Notice the dramatic flair, the conflict and the underlying excitement? There’s an element that compels you to respond. Indeed, everybody wants to talk about themselves, and these questions irresistibly tap into that desire.
Again, the ideal question is open-ended, easy to answer and exciting. It has millions of possible answers and it sends her into a world of intrigue, infinite possibility and fantasy…
Finally, remember this: If you don’t get it right in the beginning, don’t give up. Pinpointing the PERFECT question for any given girl takes practice… like any skill. But fortunately for you, there’s an unlimited supply of women to practice with online. So get out there, give the above questions a try and create new ones of your own.
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