The love of your life just broke up with you. You are devastated. You feel like it is the end of the world. How do you cope with the pain?
Don't rush the grieving process. Don't say that you are over your ex when you are not. Acknowledge your feelings. Over time it will get easier. It all depends on how long you were with the person and how much you cared about the person. There is no time limit to get over someone and you just can't forget about someone you were in a relationship with.
Keep your mind busy but also face the hurt. Try to keep your mind off your ex. Do things that make you feel good about yourself. The pain will be there at the end of the night. Just don't focus on it.
Talk it over with your friends. Good friends have your back and they want the best for you. They will cheer you up and listen to your story. Go out with them and lean on your girls. Guys come and go but your girls will be there forever.
Focus on yourself. Find a new hobby and love yourself. Use affirmations and tell yourself that it was his loss. Tell yourself that any guy would be lucky to be with a girl like you.
Dealing with a failed relationship can be hard but it is something we all face and must deal with at one time or another. In no time you will be back on your feet and ready to love again. Love is out there for everyone. As the saying goes "You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince."