All alone and wondering how to attract men?Attracting men is no rocket science. All it takes is a little bit of confidence. More than anything else, men look for softness and tenderness. So, the next time you are out and looking to attract a man’s attention, don’t go all out. Bring out all your best features and see him fall for you in no time. However, since not all women get it right the first time, here are six successful pointers that have worked like a charm for a lot of women out there.
#1 Highlight your Key Strength
At the onset, be clear about the fact that men notice a women’s appearance. So, it only makes sense if you present your key feature in a confident manner. Do not ponder over your weaknesses at all. In fact, look for all the strong points in you and make an effort to get those noticed.
Every woman is different and it is only fair to play to your strengths. A man will definitely notice you if you are confident about the way you are. Do not try to copy other women or their traits. Just because something works for other women doesn’t mean that it will work for you too. Always believe that you are special in a unique way.
#2 Posture Matters
A stranger will only notice you if he finds you different from the rest. The best way to do this is to ensure that your body language speaks volumes about yourself. It doesn’t come overnight!
While some are naturally good at presenting themselves, some women are careless about their posture and the way they look. Always remember that a man wants a woman who values herself. He will only like you if you like yourself. No man wants to choose a woman who is busy hiding their face in the crowd. Make sure that you give them ample reason to fall for you.
#3 Look Them in the Eye
A man will always be more nervous than a woman when they meet the first time. So, do them a favor and look them in the eye. This is kind of like a secret permission telling them that they are welcome to start a conversation. It is a bad idea to dodge their look. More often than not, a man won’t approach you if you don’t look them in the eye. Eye contact is a subtle form of communication. Let your eyes do the talking.
#4 A Smile Can Open Many Doors
There's a reason why smiles are valued. A smile will open a lot of doors. It will enhance your look and make you desirable to them. Not only will it increase your face value, but it will also send out a message that you love life, and everything around you. A man wants women who smile and spread good riddance as opposed to someone who is too serious or has a blank impression on her face.
A smile will make you more approachable. Remember, you, not smiling is a clear message that you are not interested. If a man smiles at you, return the favor if you're interested too. This way he will feel more confident and comfortable to make the first move.
If a man approaches you, it is quite possible that he is going to introduce himself and try to impress you with a witty joke. Make it a point to laugh at the jokes or encourage them by laughing if you want to continue the conversation. A hearty laugh will only encourage them to come up with better jokes. By laughing at their jokes, you will be able to successfully communicate that your sense of humor is equally good as theirs.
#6 Take Genuine Interest
If you manage to strike up a conversation, take genuine interest in them-even if it is a brief encounter. It is extremely insulting for a man when a woman keeps looking all over the place while conversing with them. Do yourself a favor and give them the attention they deserve. At times, men take time to open up. Giving your maximum attention will only encourage them to open up to you and share things that may excite you.
There is no point in seeking attention of all the men in a room. Instead try and choose a selective few, who you know you can hit it off with!