Trust is the foundation of a marriage. Cheating completely destroys trust in a marriage. A cheating partner may be forgiven but it will be very hard for the person that was cheated on to forget. Therefore, when trust is broken, it remains that way. In addition, when a person in marriage cheats once and is forgiven, it is highly likely that he/she will cheat again.
In marriages where one spouse has cheated before, distrust is very common. The person who was cheated on will always imagine that he/she is being cheated on even whine nothing of the sort is happening. This weakens the marriage bond between two people who were once in love with each other. In the end, the distrust will eventually lead to divorce.
The effects of divorce
A divorce does not affect only the two people that got married. There are many other parties that are affected by a divorce. Other people affected include the children, close family members and close friends. In other words, you hurt all the loved ones around you when you get a divorce. The children are the one who suffer the most from a divorce. [Read More: Marriage counselors agree on swinging in your relationship]
Luckily, there are ways that people who are married can strengthen their relationship. On of the best ways to strengthen the marriage bond is by adopting a swinging lifestyle. Marriage relationships today are completely different from what they were a couple of years ago. Today, people have a very different mindset about marriage and relationships. Most people don’t take the marriage institutions as seriously as people did a few decades ago. This explains why divorce rates have increased tremendously. If you are currently not happy with your marriage but you don’t want it to end, you can breathe excitement into it using a swinging lifestyle. Start by joining swinger parties, clubs, websites and discussion forums.
The benefits of swinging lifestyle to your marriage
Being in a swinging relationship does not mean that you will not be able to maintain a loving relationship with the person you are married to. Most couples who have tried swinging can confess that it is a lot of fun. It will greatly help to strengthen the relationship between you and your spouse. According to statistics, the main cause of divorce is infidelity. When you adopt a swinging lifestyle, you help to eliminate the possibility of your spouse seeing someone behind your back. [Read more: Swingers have lower divorce rates than monogamous couples]
It is human nature to get bored with things that come regularly and are easily accessible. When you are in a marriage, you talk, sleep and have sex with the same person every night. At some point, you will be bored with doing these things with the same person. When you get bored, you will be attracted to other people. The attraction people feel towards other people is what leads to cheating in marriage. You cannot prevent yourself from having an eye for other people.
Swinger couples accept that the attraction towards other people is human. When you are attracted to a person that is not your wife or husband, it does not mean that you no longer love the person that you are married to. It is just human nature. You need to open up with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. You have to discuss the truth about sex. When you both accept a swinging lifestyle, it will be easy for you to accept this relationship aspect. This way, your marriage will not fall apart only because you got attracted to other people.
Most people usually dismiss the idea of being in a healthy swinging relationship when they hear about it. In fact, the majority of people who are married consider swinging as something that should not be done. However, the fact that swinger couples enjoy healthy marriages is proof enough that swinging helps to strengthen the bond of a marriage. [Read more:Swinger couples: A beginner’s guide for newbies]
Swinger relationships are not only for people who are unhappy in their marriages. Swinging can also help you if you are in a happy marriage but you are not enjoying a good sex life. It gives you the opportunity to fill in this gap and spice up your relationship with your husband/wife. Without a good sex life, you will always have problems with your partner even when you really love each other.
Therefore, don’t allow your marriage to be destroyed by boredom and ultimately cheating. By adopting a swinging lifestyle, It will not be hard to meet other swingers who have a similar desire.